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  • Chappell Roan as a plumber, construction worker, lawyer, dentist, and detective in promo art for The Giver
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    How I Learned To Enjoy
    Receiving (In Honor of ‘The Giver’)

    motti
    Mar 19, 2025
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    I Forgive Myself for My Past
    Situationships and I’ma Keep Having Them

    Fatima Kay
    Mar 4, 2025
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    Are You a Two
    Fingers or a Thumb Lesbian?

    Carlo
    Feb 26, 2025
  • "I've never had sex with a girl before and I'm highly insecure about my body."
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    ‘I’m a Sexually Inexperienced Stud
    Afraid of Doing It Wrong’

    Summer Tao
    Feb 25, 2025
  • Chappell Roan as a plumber, construction worker, lawyer, dentist, and detective in promo art for The Giver
    lesbian sex

    How I Learned To Enjoy
    Receiving (In Honor of ‘The Giver’)

    motti
    Mar 19, 2025
  • person carrying flowers
    first person

    I Forgive Myself for My Past
    Situationships and I’ma Keep Having Them

    Fatima Kay
    Mar 4, 2025
  • two fingers going into a papaya
    lesbian sex

    Are You a Two
    Fingers or a Thumb Lesbian?

    Carlo
    Feb 26, 2025
  • "I've never had sex with a girl before and I'm highly insecure about my body."
    lesbian sex

    ‘I’m a Sexually Inexperienced Stud
    Afraid of Doing It Wrong’

    Summer Tao
    Feb 25, 2025
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Chappell Roan as a plumber, construction worker, lawyer, dentist, and detective in promo art for The Giver
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How I Learned To Enjoy Receiving (In Honor of ‘The Giver’)

If a stone top likes “The Giver” and it resonates with them, I think that’s beautiful. But to call Chappell a stone top and the song a stone top anthem?…
motti —
Mar 19, 2025
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I Forgive Myself for My Past Situationships and I’ma Keep Having Them

I’ve known for a long time that my mom’s lack of emotional availability was a setup for my romantic relationships.
Fatima Kay —
Mar 4, 2025
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Are You a Two Fingers or a Thumb Lesbian?

At the end of the day, being a “two fingers” or a “thumb” lesbian isn’t just about physical technique; it’s about preference, pleasure, and the way you connect with your…
Carlo —
Feb 26, 2025
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"I've never had sex with a girl before and I'm highly insecure about my body."
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‘I’m a Sexually Inexperienced Stud Afraid of Doing It Wrong’

“Honestly I know I’m straight up lesbian ( stud ) and I’ve been in a few relationships with girls and I always ended it when things were about to get…
Summer Tao —
Feb 25, 2025
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"In the beginning of our relationship we had great sexual chemistry but when we started living together things went downhill."
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‘My Wife and I Haven’t Had Sex in Almost Two Years’

“We still kiss, cuddle, and go on dates, but that’s as intimate as it gets.”
Summer Tao —
Feb 18, 2025
"I'm afraid that this might hurt the both of us."
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‘Is It a Good Idea To Date a Girl With Internalized Homophobia?’

“She said that we couldn’t date properly because we were both girls because of our religion.”
Em Win —
Feb 11, 2025
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How To Create the Ultimate Solo BDSM Experience

This is about savouring every moment, every sensation, and indulging yourself in a deeply intimate and fulfilling solo BDSM journey, which yes is totally achievable and can be a way…
Carlo —
Feb 5, 2025
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"How do I experiment and find what makes my partner feel good if even a light make out session makes him overwhelmed with anxiety about his inexperience?"
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‘How Can I Be a Good Girlfriend When My Partner Is Extremely Anxious About Sex’

“I feel like we intuitively understand each other and our needs in a lot of matters and are willing to figure it out when intuition isn’t enough. One area that…
Summer Tao —
Feb 4, 2025
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How To Last Longer When Eating Someone Out

There’s one trick that can help you mitigate jaw and tongue tension when going down.
Carlo —
Jan 24, 2025
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"I have practically zero sexual experience with women, and although I want to learn, I'm afraid that women will lose interest in me after I tell them about my inexperience."
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‘I Just Realized I’m Bi and Am Extremely Anxious’

I’ve flirted with women at bars, online, and have even had a few steamy make-out sessions, but I’m extremely anxious about taking it any further.
Summer Tao —
Jan 21, 2025
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"A few years ago, when I met the person who is now my best friend, I definitely had a big crush."
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‘Is It Okay if I Stay in Love With My Best Friend?’

“We’re not going to get together for a lot of reasons — I don’t really have time for a new partner, they’re monogamous and I am not, and they’re just…
Summer Tao —
Jan 7, 2025
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"I opened up a dating app profile because I don't really know how else to meet women."
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‘I Want To Be With a Woman, but My Inexperience Makes Me Feel Really Insecure’

“I fear being ‘made fun of’ or ‘rejected’ in a way.”
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —
Dec 31, 2024
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