Love + Sex Archives

breakups

Is it Okay To Write an Apology Letter To an Ex? 10 Queers Weigh In

The concept of the Breakup Apology Letter is a controversial one! Where do you land?

the team

Oct 13, 2025

nsfw sunday

NSFW Sunday Is Bruised Like A Peach

What to do when you’re too sore from a spanking to sit, being solo poly in quarantine, whether or not coconut oil can cure yeast infections and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jul 12, 2020

dom in a short black skirt holds a basket of sex toys with a speech bubble that says "how about DADDY"

af+

S L I C K: Yes, Daddy

I wanted you to dominate me, Daddy, and you relished the chance. The leather straps twirled through the air as the pain grew sharper and more familiar. It stung hard.…

Ana Valens

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Jul 9, 2020

love + sex

You Need Help: Why Can’t I Break Up With Them?

You owe it to yourself and your partner to be honest.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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Jul 7, 2020

sex toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Palm Power Extreme

The Magic Wand isn’t without critique. I have been yearning for a sleeker toy, something waterproof, a wand that doesn’t hurt my wrists and at times I want intensity without…

Guest

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Jul 6, 2020

Halo the GxdBody and La Muxer Diosa making out

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Can Wait To Make Out For As Long As It Takes

A Massachusetts city has officially recognized polyamorous relationships; playing Animal Crossing with a buttplug; why “clean” is not a good metaphor for talking about STI status; and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jul 5, 2020

Beating Hart, C’est La Vie, and Cinnamon Maxxine

nsfw sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Fingerblasting Through Quarantine

Is handsex now the safest sex after masturbating alone? Plus, how to handle a too-needy friend, what it’s like to fall in love with another gamer, and more.

Ryan Yates

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Jun 28, 2020

love + sex

Yes I’m Flagging: My Hanky Code Zine Is Ready For You

While we’re figuring out how to communicate six feet apart after months of cruising Lex, I figured it’d be a good time to share my zine Yes I’m Flagging: Queer…

Archie

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Jun 27, 2020

af+

S L I C K: Lesson Learned

“Ms. DeLovely, will you please stop by during my office hours?” Your voice stern, but laced with sweet concern. I’m already dripping. Clearly this is a role you were born…

Kiki DeLovely

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Jun 25, 2020