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relationships

You Need Help: Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex, but There’s Something Deeper Here

You are telling me one thing, which is that your wife and you communicate well and she cares for you, and then I am seeing something different, which is that…

Nico —

Oct 10, 2023

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relationships

You Need Help: How Do I Stop Bringing Baggage From My Last Relationship Into My New One?

This is where it gets really scary: Growing together requires communication. 

Drew Burnett Gregory —

Oct 3, 2023

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relationships

You Need Help: My Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex

To me, both of these things are true: 1. People’s sex drives can change for any number of reasons, at any time and 2. If sex is important to you,…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Sep 26, 2023

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dating

You Need Help: How Can I Help With Someone Else’s Fear of Dating?

Sometimes, people get on dating apps before they’re really ready to date.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Sep 19, 2023

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friendship

You Need Help: My Girlfriend Struggles With Social Skills

Just because someone operates differently from you doesn’t mean they’re wrong, bad, or need help.

Em Win —

Sep 12, 2023

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breakups

You Need Help: How Do I Overcome the Feeling I’ll Never Find Someone After a Breakup?

I think we all need to shift away from the idea that the sole definition of a successful relationship is one that lasts forever.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Sep 5, 2023

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relationships

You Need Help: My Partner and I Aren’t Having Sex — How Can I Still Foster Intimacy?

Sometimes in long-term relationships, our needs shift and/or our capacity to fulfill someone’s needs shift.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Aug 29, 2023

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friendship

You Need Help: Am I Her Best Friend or Am I Being Emotionally Manipulated?

It’s possible your needs and views when it comes to intimacy are incompatible.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Aug 22, 2023

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gender

You Need Help: I Feel Disconnected From Gender As a Concept

“Identifying as a woman doesn’t feel right, but affirmatively identifying as ‘not a woman’ also doesn’t feel right.”

Riese —

Aug 15, 2023

trans men

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dating

You Need Help: I’m Afraid of Feeling Like Less of a Trans Man for Not Dating Men

Cool people who will appreciate you as a whole person exist, and I believe you can find them.

Nico —

Aug 8, 2023

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dating

You Need Help: When Is the Right Time To Talk About Being Exclusive in a Relationship?

And do I have to have the conversation in person when we’re long distance?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Aug 1, 2023

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friendship

You Need Help: I Miss the Social Intimacy of Church

How can I build meaningful and lasting friendships?

Em Win —

Jul 25, 2023