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gender

‘I Identified As Non-Binary for Years but I Think I’m Cis’

Gender exploration is for everyone, regardless of starting point or expectations.

Summer Tao —

Sep 17, 2024

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friendship

‘My Gay Guy Friend Is Rude and Blames It on Gay vs. Lesbian Culture’

“I’ve started hanging out with him less because he’s just annoying at times.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Sep 10, 2024

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dating

‘I Can’t Tell if My Coworker Is Flirting With Me but I Kind of Hope She Is’

“At work, we already have a bunch of inside jokes, and we find excuses to hang out during the day between meetings and spend so much of our time messaging…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Sep 3, 2024

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dating

‘I Haven’t Felt a Spark With Anyone Since My Ex’

“is it leading someone on to keep repeatedly seeing them and going on dates if I’m unsure about them?”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Aug 27, 2024

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dating

‘How Do I Date When I’m Attracted to Hardly Anyone?’

“I’ve been out and queer for a long time now, and I get quite a bit of attention from people. I have a lot of self-confidence and if I’m into…

Summer Tao —

Aug 20, 2024

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relationships

‘I’m Married, My Ex Just Said She’s in Love With Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do’

“I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.”

Summer Tao —

Aug 13, 2024

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relationships

‘Quarantine Was Great for My Relationship’

“How do we get back to where we were without literally going back to where we were during lockdown?”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Aug 6, 2024

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breakups

‘I Want To Break Up With My Girlfriend but We’re Co-Workers’

“Feeling like I can’t break up with her is making me so unhappy, which makes me want to break up more!”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Jul 30, 2024

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relationships

‘My Wife Is in the Early Stages of Transitioning, and I Feel Weird About Keeping Her Identity a Secret’

“It feels like she’s never going to be fully out and that this is just how the rest of our life together is going to be.”

Summer Tao —

Jul 16, 2024

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breakups

‘How Do I Transition My Failed Situationship Into a Friendship?’

“I know saying my situationship broke up with me a week ago and we’re trying to be friends already is probably the most lesbian-coded sentence on the planet…”

ashni —

Jul 9, 2024

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friendship

‘I Resent My Best Friend for Moving Away and Having Kids’

“A few years back, my best friend got married, moved to the suburbs, and had kids.”

Sa’iyda Shabazz —

Jul 2, 2024

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queer fashion

I Want To Dress Like Lesbian Jimmy Buffett

“The problem is I’m having a hard time adapting his boat lovin’, chill dude style to my tits and ass.”

Em Win —

Jun 25, 2024