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You Need Help: Cat Whistling Your Queerness To Other Closeted Queer Ladies

Need help flirting “in a way that’s subtle enough to fly over a straight girl’s head, but be picked up on by LBPQ woman?” Read on!

Laura Mandanas —

Dec 16, 2015

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Lesbian Dating 101: A Syllabus For Girls Who Want to Date Other Girls

How to pick up chicks, how to escape your terrible date, how to handle rejection, how to effectively fight with your girlfriend — we’ve got so much advice for y’all.

Riese —

Jan 21, 2015

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15 Things You Learn When You Move In With Your Girlfriend

8. How is it possible that one person can leave so many half-empty glasses of water around the house in a matter of hours? How is this a thing?!

Kate —

Nov 10, 2014

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You Need Help: So Your Girlfriend Never Ever Ever Wants To Have Sex

“Do I continue to sacrifice my own needs in order to stay in this relationship where I am undesired, or do I end a relationship with so much love and…

Riese —

Nov 7, 2014

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How To Have Lesbian Sex: Anal Edition

The only barriers I want when I have anal sex are safety related.

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Sep 3, 2014

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You Need Help: How To Let Her Down Easy

What to do when you’re just not that into the girl you’ve been dating.

Riese —

Aug 29, 2014

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Flirting with Danger: Dating Fails on the Autism Spectrum

“Satisfactory social responses are often more obvious to nonautistic individuals. My behavior can be misinterpreted as ludicrous excuses or just being a jerk, when I’m simply lacking social knowledge.”

Emily —

Jul 8, 2014

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