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I've been wanting to do one of these since we launched the Interview With My Significant Other series, but Sadie is an elusive human and it took us conducting this interview over multiple sessions in the woods to complete it. After nearly five years together, one thing is abundantly clear. We're very chatty. Thanks for tuning in.
On one of our first dates, we went to see a collection of over 5,000 Catholic relics, saint skulls and such. This is NOT a photo from that date.
How do you identify?
Nico: All right. So how I identify... Because we're going to both talk about how we identify.
Sadie: Right.
Nico: Sure. Beautiful. I identify as a gender fluid/gender queer person. I'm white. I'm in my thirties. I us...
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Nico Hall is a Team Writer for Autostraddle (formerly Autostraddle's A+ and Fundraising Director and For Them's Membership and Editorial Ops person.) They write nonfiction both creative — and the more straightforward variety, too, as well as fiction. They are currently at work on a secret longform project. Nico is also haunted. You can find them on Twitter and Instagram. Here's their website, too.
Nico has written 232 articles for us.