"He, too, seems incredibly boring, though he is ten years my senior, a point in his favor. Another point: his wife is dark haired, fat, and blue eyed, thirteen years…

A writer reflects on accessing desire in trying times and the romance of collective liberation — playdates that range from toppy to bratty, a bottom with endearing nonverbal cues, a…

"In the outside world, I dress masc, and skirts feel foreign. But at play parties, I’ve started wearing a tiny top/skirt combo, trusting that for those few hours, my gender…

We’re both trying to avoid the lesbian bed death trope, hoping to be remembered in history as lovers, not "really good friends."

"I’m not in a place where coming out to my family is a reasonable option. Fortunately, I have a husband who is more than happy to cover me during my…

"I always worry these older guys are gonna fucking die when I get them to hit poppers with me, especially if they popped a Viagra first."

"My partner and I have an open relationship. While we used to be really honest about things, when I met someone I actually liked, E, they decided they didnt want…

"A while ago, my gender friend and I realized we had both searched “power bottom” on Autostraddle, within the same week." This week's writer takes us to a leather play…

"It’s another day and another event at the converted church, Paradiso with DJs playing everything from Arabic edits to Afro House and baile funk. This time, I’ve accidentally attended what…

I texted my best friends, “I think studying religion is making me horny,” because I’ve been wanting to jump everyone’s bones (respectfully). A young queer woman chronicles a week in…

"But I'd risk it all for her." A young trans man in Johannesburg is sleeping with his straight boss in secret, and falling more deeply for her every day.

A nonbinary person finally receives an endometriosis diagnosis that explains their pain. As ey begin exploring treatment options that mitigate the pain, ey and their partner decide to try having…

"My friend in the red shirt says that she thinks you're really attractive." A bisexual takes us through a week of polyamorous dating, sex and a little bit of drama.

For the first time I was able to experience, without pain, the feeling of having my partner’s fingers inside of me and we found a new level of intimacy and…

The whole vibrator-as-necklace thing might seem gimmicky, but the Vesper genuinely looks like a decent piece of androgynous jewelry.

I took the advice of wise strappers before me and wore the harness and b.cush around the house for a while.

Erasing decades of religious trauma doesn’t happen overnight.

I expected to be blown away by the Eroscillator Top Deluxe Vibrator — and I was.

The main reason I’ve been wanting to try the Neoprene Thigh Harness is so that I can penetrate my partner while tribbing against her thigh.

When I learned there are sex toys called ovipositors that allow you to lay "alien eggs" in your host, I had to try one.