Sex is always a lifelong learning process; we’re all just out here doing our best, etc etc. Sometimes though, as you’re fumbling toward ecstasy going through your life as a queer person who has queer sex, you stumble across something that changes EVERYTHING – it makes you feel like something never has before, or totally opens up your perspective about what sex can be or is. Here are some of our stories about those moments. [Law and Order sound]