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Having sex with an ex-partner definitely falls under the category of things you can absolutely do. We’re not here to shame consenting adults for doing what they want to, amongst themselves. However, it also falls under the category of things that you don’t have to do just because you can. We make jokes about not texting our exes for reasons, and many of those reasons are very good. After all, you broke up.Still, I would really love to hear from someone who’s never texted an ex. If you are a person of iron boundaries who’s never texted your ex, PLEASE DO tell me in the comments. I would love to hear from you! So, presuming that a number of us have, in fact, had sex with our exes, I asked the team to tell me about a time they had sex with an ex, or, if they never had, what their stance on the subject is. Is this an intentional state of being, the fact that they’ve never had sex with an ex, or are they open to sleeping with an ex in the future?
If you’ve ever visited our Into the A+ Advice Box column, you know that we’re very pro-breaking up if things aren’t working out. So, naturally, that means, we sure have some exes and we sure have a range of queer experiences on the subject. Maybe, this collection of answers will bring us somewhere closer to some kind of consensus. I won’t decide that for you, though. If you’ve ever slept with an ex, if you’ve stayed away from it like the plague, or if you land somewhere in between, we’d love to hear from you in the comments!
Xoxo,
Nicole
