The 50 Best Queer Sex Toys

By Archie Bongiovanni & Ryan Yates

The right sex toy can make you feel sexy. It can make you feel seen. And hopefully, it can make you or a partner come a ton if that’s something you’re into. But even though the sex industry has come a long way in the past decade, it can still be hard to find sex toy recommendations by queers, for queers, without the alienating language or imagery that often characterizes sex toy shopping. That’s why we’ve created the following list of what are, in our opinions, the 50 best queer sex toys out there.

The 50 Best Queer Sex Toys

  1. The Best Queer Vibrators
  2. The Best Queer Anal Toys
  3. The Best Queer Dildos
  4. The Best Queer Strap-On Harnesses
  5. The Best Queer Genital-Specific Toys
  6. The Best Queer BDSM Lite Gear
  7. The Best Queer Sex Supplies & Accessories

The Best Queer Vibrators

Magic Wand Rechargeable

What can be said about the Magic Wand that hasn’t been said before? A tried and true toy for all genders and bodies, the rumbly vibrations that make this wand a near-universal favorite have yet to be duplicated. Save yourself a headache (and money) and buy from a trusted retailer and not Amazon, which has some very good but very faulty knock-offs. The rechargeable version offers a silicone head, four speeds, and four patterns — and if the battery dies mid-use, you can plug it in and keep going while it charges. Try it on a vulva; try it along the perineum to stimulate the p-spot from the outside, as well as stimulate lots of sensitive nerves in the area; try it on nipples; get wild and try it on the knots in your back. If you only buy one vibrator, ever, make it this one. Read Autostraddle’s full review here.

We-Vibe Tango

The We-Vibe Tango is one of the rumbliest lipstick/bullet vibrators on the market. As a lipstick vibrator, it’s just a bit longer than a regular bullet, which makes it easier to grip. It’s powerful enough to use alone, small enough to take up very little space if you slide it between your and a partner’s body during sex, or slip it into the vibrator pocket on a harness. Plus it’s waterproof and rechargeable. Read Autostraddle’s full review here.

Joie Bullet

The Joie Bullet feels like it might fly out of your hands the first time you hold it — it’s that intense. The Joie is an ideal addition for dildos, rings, anal toys, or strap-on harnesss that have a slot to add a bullet vibrator. The Joie is strong enough to translate through thick silicone, plus its waterproof and rechargeable.

Dame Products Pom

Dame Products’ Pom is one of the quietest vibrators on the market and small enough to hide in a drawer, ideal for those who want to keep their toys discreet. Ergonomic, soft and flexible, the design allows for users to lay it flat against their body or use the tip for more pinpointed sensation. Lay it between two bodies for a next-level scissoring experience.

Fun Factory Volta

The Volta’s genius design is one of a kind: the silicone base splits into two tips that flap together to create a strong fluttering sensation. The rumbly powerful Fun Factory vibrations can be reduced to a slow low flicker or a higher intense sensation. The tips of this toy can be placed all over the body, or the whole toy can be pressed against a vulva. The beauty of the Volta is how universal it can be, put it on a clit, put it on a penis between the flaps, put it on a nipple, a scrotum, a butt, an insole. Rechargeable and fully submersible, the only limit the Volta has is your imagination. Read Autostraddle’s full review here.

Pulse III Duo

The Pulse III Duo curves around a penis with a strong vibrating disc that stimulates the frenulum but can be shifted to stimulate elsewhere on the shaft as well. This smart toy can be used on a flaccid penis and/or a penis that can’t reach erection. For some, it can be a hands free toy for masturbation. When in use, a partner can climb on top and grind on the toy. There’s a slight vibration, however it’s very soft so the grinding partner might want to incorporate other vibrators or toys as well.

We-Vibe Rave

The We-Vibe Rave is a g-spot or external vibrator that stands out because of its rumbly vibrations, asymmetrical shape with more options for angles, and easy-to-grip-even-covered-in-lube curve. Plus, it’s compatible with We-Connect, We-Vibe’s app that lets users share control of compatible sex toys with a long-distance partner. (Though, as Isabelle Kohn reports at Mel, in 2016 We-Vibe was sued for its data collection practices not long after Defcon hackers showed it would be possible to take control of a sex toy through We-Connect, We-Vibe has since improved security and changed its data practices so users opt in to aggregate-only collection, and We-Connect is now one of the most secure sex-toy apps out there, making it a strong option for long-distance connection.) The Rave is also splash proof, rechargeable, and has 10 vibration modes if you’re into that.

Doxy Die-Cast Wand

The Doxy Die-Cast is a wand vibrator similar to the Magic Wand, with one important difference: it’s cast aluminum/titanium alloy. The weighty, luxurious body is beautiful to look at and sensual to hold, especially if you aren’t into the plastic feel of many other wands (though note that the Doxy does have some ABS components). Plus it’s rumbly as hell and so powerful you won’t mind having to plug it into a wall. It also has a silicone head that you can disinfect and LED buttons.

Pages: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7See entire article on one page

Before you go! Autostraddle runs on the reader support of our AF+ Members. If this article meant something to you today — if it informed you or made you smile or feel seen, will you consider joining AF and supporting the people who make this queer media site possible?

Join AF+!
Related:

Ryan Yates

Ryan Yates was the NSFW Editor (2013–2018) and Literary Editor for Autostraddle.com, with bylines in Nylon, Refinery29, The Toast, Bitch, The Daily Beast, Jezebel, and elsewhere. They live in Los Angeles and also on twitter and instagram.

Ryan has written 1142 articles for us.

30 Comments

  4. Finally, an end-of-the year list that MATTERS. Thank y’all for this.

    Spareparts Joque Harness- magnificent to wear, worth the money, and great performance (so my wife says).

  5. So I don’t have enough money for a womanizer (ugh that name), so I got myself a satisfyer pro 2. It’s a cheaper knock off and I did have €60 to spend. German brand I think. (I just noticed they have a version for “men” so if you have a penis maybe they make one for you too?) Reviews said it’s more noisey but I live alone so don’t really care.

    I do not like vibrating toys, it’s often way to much for me. Also: I just changed my anti-depressants, on the old ones I had about zero interest in sex. With these interest is improved but orgasms are still a bit difficult to come by. (pun intended)

    Holy fuck this toy is exactly what works for me! It’s not the most interesting if you want to take your time and play around. If you just want to lay there and come and come and come – this is your toy. Within minutes. I cannot use the highest settings because it’s way to much for me. The one I have is waterproof btw.

    Absolutely recommend! 5/5 stars! 7/5 stars! All of the stars!

    • I met the couple that created the Womanizer at ILS a few years ago and we…. discussed the name. Dude was all in on it. Nice people though, and I ordered a bunch from them. They ARE pricey, but they really do work like that! I’m so glad you’re seeing stars :)

      • As am I! :)

        If I ever get a job again and some more financial freedom I’m very interested in the womanizer with the dildo attatched.

        • If you mean the Inside Out I have that one and strongly recommend. I promise you will be giving (and seeing) even more stars

          • This makes me want to get a lottery ticket. First buy: toys! A bottle of champagne. Then put everything in my bankaccount and think about what I want.

            (Except not really because lotteries are a terrible investment.)

    • Just looked up the Satisfyer.. apparently it’s soft rose gold ”satisfies the female population”..! so we don’t need sex toys, just a nice ”feminine” colour will send us into multi-orgasmic joy

      • Uhh that’s so bad. Their whole site had me near nausiated. The part for “men” was possibly even worse.

        I’m happy with the product, okay with the colour (but would have preferred options)and hate the name. It’s less terrible than the womanizer, but that is a low bar to pass.

  6. Honestly it’s ridiculous to not put the prices on the list. How am I supposed to know which toys I should even bother looking at?

  8. I recently discovered a fantastic way to increase and diversify your sex life. You can buy sex toys, for example, but the best thing for me is to get a sex machine. I found a comprehensive list of these machines here: https://kinkazoid.com/sex-machines/ , which includes a complete breakdown and other information. I believe it will be a revelation for many couples and will much assist to diversify sexual relationships.

  10. my store this is high and cheap price product sell. Welcome to the World of Realistic Sex Dolls.very good product for my store YOKIDOLL specializes in high-quality real life sex doll、male sex dolls with distinguished tastes. Our Real Sex Doll each has a personal character to fulfill your deepest desires.
    full size adult doll：lifelike sex dolls 、mini sex doll、life size sex doll .courier for free！
    than yokidoll product men specipice product is very high quality
    thats product high image and high quality product sell frist sell best offer my website
    sex doll, our store is the best product. smart product my store. my product is best and comportable quality product dolls
    https://yokidolls.com

  11. Many people are looking for good and reliable sex toys, but it is often not easy to find where to read about them. Luckily I already know what to do and where to go. Here I could easily find xinghaoya tongue vibrator and my girlfriend is very happy with such a gift. So I recommend everyone to look at it and get acquainted with it in detail. Good luck, I hope I was able to help someone with the selection of such a thing. sex blog

  12. German Psychologist Eva Wlodarek, specialising in women’s affairs said, “If you do not talk about your innermost desires and do not keep an open mind on your partner’s desires you will generate frustration on both sides”. A recent survey revealed that 66 percent of men believe that a relationship benefits when erotic preferences are expressed. However, when it comes to practice, things are not always that simple. 62 percent of men surveyed admitted to not always speaking openly about their desires, and 10 percent of men said they would never dare to do so. It happens almost as much with women, who often remain silent for fear of rejection.

    I’ve done the same to my girlfriend. I’ve all the time been into bullet vibrators, and found one on Bedbible.com; here: https://bedbible.com/bullet-vibrator/

    I took the chance and talked openly about it with my girlfriend, and actually we got to buy one together.

  13. my store this is high and cheap price product sell. Welcome to the World of Realistic Sex Dolls.very good product for my store YOKIDOLL specializes in high-quality real life sex doll、male sex dolls with distinguished tastes. Our Real Sex Doll each has a personal character to fulfill your deepest desires.
    full size adult doll：lifelike sex dolls 、mini sex doll、life size sex doll .courier for free！
    than yokidoll product men specipice product is very high quality
    thats product high image and high quality product sell frist sell best offer my website
    sex doll, our store is the best product. smart product my store. my product is best and comportable quality product dolls
    https://yokidolls.com

  14. Do you have questions about sex toys? Or maybe you are lost on what kind is best for you. We are devoted to answering these questions and more on adult products and sex toys such as lubricants, sex furniture, anal toys, body clamps,plugs, vibrators, suckers, clips, vibrators, dildos, strap ons, and so on. You’ll find more than two hundred reviews and articles on adult toys on our site written by our team of experts. These articles cover what the adult toys/products are, who can use them, how to use them, safety precautions, types and how to choose the best type for you. We also make sure to update and write new articles on these topics. We have been active since 2013, so you can trust our site for factual and credible information. We are also fortunate to have over one hundred thousand (100,000) users (monthly) who find our site very helpful. Our contents are friendly and easy to understand, which means anyone can become a user, learning, and understanding all about sex toys or an adult product of interest.

  15. Many people are looking for good and reliable sex toys, but it is often not easy to find where to read about them. Luckily I already know what to do and where to go. Here I could easily find xinghaoya tongue vibrator and my girlfriend is very happy with such a gift. So I recommend everyone to look at it and get acquainted with it in detail. Good luck, I hope I was able to help someone with the selection of such a thing 2022 top10 sex toys

  16. Do you have questions about sex toys? Or maybe you are lost on what kind is best for you. We are devoted to answering these questions and more on adult products and sex toys such as lubricants, sex furniture, anal toys, body clamps,long butt plug plugs, vibrators, suckers, clips, vibrators, dildos, strap ons, and so on. You’ll find more than two hundred reviews and articles on adult toys on our site written by our team of experts. These articles cover what the adult toys/products are, who can use them, how to use them, safety precautions, types and how to choose the best type for you. We also make sure to update and write new articles on these topics. We have been active since 2013, so you can trust our site for factual and credible information. We are also fortunate to have over one hundred thousand (100,000) users (monthly) who find our site very helpful. Our contents are friendly and easy to understand, which means anyone can become a user, learning, and understanding all about sex toys or an adult product of interest.

  17. You should file Form 1040 Schedule 2 along with Form 1040, Form 1040-SR, or Form 1040-NR to report taxes not included in the basic tax forms taxuni and zrivo and irs, intuit, turbotax.

  19. You should file Form 1040 Schedule 2 along with Form 1040, Form 1040-SR, or Form 1040-NR to report taxes not included in the basic tax forms taxuni and zrivo and irs, intuit, turbotax.

Comments are closed.