“Life is tough all over,” is a thing my Mom used to whip out as a hyperbolic response to our childhood protestations over small injustices like being asked to clean our rooms or eat an apple instead of a cookie. But that line came up again and again for me this year as an ultimate truth, not hyperbolic at all. This team has been through it — messy heartbreaks and breakups including actual divorces, the deaths of humans and beloved animals, frightening surgeries, health scares, crushing mental breakdowns. Then, over all of it: the daily tragicomedy of our current President and This F*cking Country… it has been a year of figuring out what it means to resist, a year of humility and panic, a year that seemed impossible until it turned out that it was in fact entirely possible, because here it is and here we still are. A year that brought tragedy in spades but reminded us of what and why and who we love, too.”
RIESE BERNARD, DECEMBER 2017
My fave memory is of going to a workshop at my first A-Camp (in 2017, that I only got to go to because of a Campership) about how to pitch online publications. I’m not exaggerating when I say that that workshop literally changed my life.
I majored in writing in undergrad but never really did anything specific with it (besides becoming an English teacher because I love being a cliche). After the workshop, though, I pitched Autostraddle, then wrote for Autostraddle, then became staff at Autostraddle and A-Camp. I leveraged that into other writing gigs, used my clips on Autostraddle’s website to build my portfolio, and essentially survived for two very difficult years in between careers by building a life freelancing, as a result of what I learned from my Autostraddle experience.
I eventually leveraged that freelancing into a real job, and I am now full-time employed and doing well. I think getting that Campership, and going to that workshop was like, hugely important to the fact that I am, like, alive right now? Writing online didn’t turn into the career I thought it would, but that push in a certain direction made the life I have now seem possible. And it is! I’m alive, and thriving. Thanks y’all :) <3
—Abeni Jones
I feel so honored that I got to be an intern for Autostraddle from 2014 – 2017. I loved that I got to witness some really great conversations via Slack that were insightful and made me think. Or just make me laugh. There are so many very smart and very funny people that work at Autostraddle. I love that I got to be a part of it with you bunch of weirdos.
Nikki Smaga