The Midwest Princess is in love! Excuse me, in her own words, she’s very in love! In her appearance on the Call Her Daddy podcast, Chappell Roan shared with host Alex Cooper that she is in a “serious relationship” with her girlfriend of six months. It’s the first time Chappell has really spoken this much about her personal life with this much detail and the first time she has explicitly recognized the relationship on a public platform.
Chappell shared that she met her girlfriend through a friend and that she was the first to make a move on her girlfriend. And apparently that’s her MO, which tracks. “I’m usually the one who makes, like in every circumstance, I make the first move,” she said.
Chappell got with her girlfriend before her explosion in popularity, and she admits it would be hard to be on the dating scene now that she’s so big. So the timing of meeting her now-girlfriend before all that really worked out. “I haven’t dated someone since this all really, really blew up,” she said. “I’m dating the same person that I was dating before I got, like blew up, so I’m not sure how I would date now. I think it would actually be a nightmare. I think I would be so single right now because you’re terrified of their intentions. I’m scared. I’m scared. I don’t trust anyone. I just think in my head, I’m like, any new person that I’m texting, I’m like, I’m assuming they will screenshot this and send it to someone else.”
Despite being in a serious and loving relationship at the moment, Chappell is an advocate for being single. In the podcast, she also said: “I’m very in love, but I am pro single. Everyone should be single, I’m serious.”
“Be single. Stop dating. Be single,” she continued. “Have a great time alone. Find out for yourself if you can a hundred percent be okay alone before you date. That’s what I found out. I had a great time when I was single and I know that I’ll be okay and now I have an awesome time that I’m with someone.” It’s great advice tbh. The best way to figure out who you want to be in a relationship is to be single or even date yourself.
Given her feelings on fame and understandable anxieties about what it would be like to casually date as a global superstar now, it makes sense that Chappell doesn’t end up sharing too many personal details about who her girlfriend is. Hopefully her fans will be respectful of their privacy, but knowing sapphic TikTok, I’m sure there are already people sleuthing for details.
But Chappell did open up about some of her sexual preferences, sharing she prefers to give first rather than receive (which tracks given “The Giver” of it all), doesn’t like PDA (which tracks given her privacy preferences), enjoys both FaceTime and phone calls, prefers late night to morning sex, and likes high sex. Despite what she sings in “Red Wine Supernova” about having a wand and a rabbit, she doesn’t actually like rabbit sex toys. Her favorite sex toy? “I guess wand,” she says. “Or like, the little rose thing? But it’s not the rose.” She and the host also bonded over liking a womanizer toy. She also shares some of her thoughts on oral sex, which gets a little gender essentialist, but within the larger context of the podcast and her work I think it’s clear she’s talking specifically about the compulsive heterosexuality of her youth.
But honestly there’s so much in the podcast — including a tease of more music to come this year, her thoughts on how fame has impacted her sense of sexuality, and more — you should just listen for yourself! I have yet to hear the whole thing because this was the first piece of gay news I saw upon waking up, so join me in listening at the link below.
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Disappointed that you wrote an article about the podcast without listening to the whole thing.
hey! thanks for the feedback, but to add some context, we’re a very small team with limited time and resources, and I wanted to focus on just this one part of the podcast instead of a full review/write-up and was honest about not listening in full yet
jfc you realize this is a free website, right?
Honestly, what is your problem? Kayla was 1) transparent and 2) confines her writing to what she listened to. Were you hoping for a summary so you didn’t have to listen to the podcast? Or have you listened and feel she’s somehow misrepresented Chappell but have decided not to say how? This is a vexatious and mean-spirited complaint. Ignore it K!
Ngl I’m confused because when does Chappell think she blew up? Seems like it was before six months ago
That was my exact thought! Obviously she has a greater sense of when things started to feel really different for her, so if the article is right and her and her girlfriend have only been together for 6 months, the past 6 months must’ve felt like things were taken to a new level for her fame-wise. Will listen to the podcast though, wonder if that detail is correct
I understood it as they met and went on some dates before Chappell blew up, but that they had only been together as an official couple for six months? But who knows.
Maybe it was recorded awhile ago? I thought that too and I’m not even a followers of hers.
Same, same. I thought that *I* was LATE the Chappell Roan Party when I first caught her on Colbert, on Valentine’s Day (2024)!
But is de femme for femme the butches are crying
She “blew up” more than six months ago so this timeline is confusing. Happy for her though! But she was definitely full fledged famous when they started dating then.
She’s so awesome, what a great interview. Thanks for putting this in front of me, I’m so not a pod-person.