sex ‘Do Lesbians Really Expect Hours and Hours of Sex’ “Asexual lesbian with a nearly nonexistant sex drive here. All I hear is that the expected norm in lesbian relationships is hours and hours of sex at a time. PLEASE… Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Jul 8, 2025
dating ‘I’m a Thirty-Something Lesbian Worried I’ll Be Single Forever’ “And I’m a total catch! I have a great job, I own my house, I’m smart, cute, and don’t speak to any of my exes!” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Jul 1, 2025
relationships ‘My Partner Talks on the Phone With Their Abusive Ex Every Day’ “Am I valid to be unsettled? And is there anything I can do to facilitate a conversation with them about this?” Summer Tao — Jun 24, 2025
sex ‘I’m Dating a Woman for the First Time and Can’t Go Down on Her’ “Whenever I try to go down on her I get grossed out by the taste and the smell. She is very clean so I know it is not a hygiene… Summer Tao — Jun 17, 2025
relationships ‘My Girlfriend Thinks My Music Taste Is Trash’ She’ll often play recent music and ask me if I know who it is when she knows the answer is no. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Jun 10, 2025
lgbt pride ‘I Don’t Want To Run Into My Ex and Ex-Friend WHO ARE DATING at Pride’ My girlfriend is super annoyed that I am even considering not going because of them being there. How do I get out of my head about this and show up… Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Jun 3, 2025
health ‘I Want To Eat More Protein Without Triggering My ED’ Practical tips for someone who wants to fuel their workouts with more protein but doesn’t want to track. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — May 27, 2025
sex ‘Talking About Sex Gives Me Literal Hives’ “I’ve tried so many things. Closing my eyes while talking. Getting drunk. I just can’t get there.” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — May 13, 2025
sex ‘I’m a Switch Having Trouble Initiating Topping’ My partner has a high libido and I have a relatively low one. Summer Tao — May 6, 2025
dating ‘My Crush Has a Boyfriend. How Do I Get Over Her and Stop Hating Him?’ Even though it doesn’t feel like it, these feelings will pass. What’s meant for you will come to you. In the meantime, dance/cry/sweat/scream it out. Em Win — Apr 29, 2025
relationships ‘I Want To Flee My Relationship’ “Today, I was talking to a dear friend about the current state of my relationship. They told me that it sounds like I am trapped, and that I am being… Summer Tao — Apr 15, 2025
sex ‘I Am Nervous About Having Sex With My Trans Girlfriend for the First Time’ I would love some insights from other trans women on what to expect when having sex with a trans woman, because I really want her to have a good time… Summer Tao — Apr 8, 2025
