Y'All Need Help

you need help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #29: What to Wear, When to Quit

Impress your tattoo artist, confront your braggy woke friend, leave your fiancee, plus two HR questions get answered by a real professional!

Laneia —

Sep 22, 2018

coming out a little later

Y'All Need Help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #28: Being Careful With Your Sex Eyes

Keeping it casual with straight gals, wondering if your kid and divorce will torpedo your lesbian dating life, and feeling disconnected from the queer community post-breakup. Plus some updates from…

Laneia —

Sep 8, 2018

coming out a little later

regular

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #27: But Back to YOU

A ruined friendship, body hair at work, coming out a little later when you’re about to marry a dude, and a frank conversation about assault. We really can have it…

Laneia —

Aug 25, 2018

Y'All Need Help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #26: Spring Cleaning Part 5

The last round of spring cleaning! Dance like no one’s watching!

Laneia —

Jun 2, 2018

lesbian college life

lesbian feminism

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #25: Spring Cleaning Part 4

Did someone say they needed me to answer 19 questions in one post?? No, they did not, but I did it anyway!!

Laneia —

May 5, 2018

Y'All Need Help

you need help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #23: Spring Cleaning Part 2

30 questions! IS ONE OF THEM YOURS?? Wow!

Laneia —

Apr 7, 2018

coming out a little later

Y'All Need Help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #21: You’ll All Be Painters

Being shy and 27 and coming out, feeling a way about your exes, moving to your long-distance girlfriend’s city, telling your long-distance friend you’re crushing on her, and swing dancing!

Laneia —

Mar 10, 2018

family

Y'All Need Help

relationships

Y’All Need Help #20: Is This Too Many Metaphors?

Your family buys you weird gifts, your mom is kinda rude about your long-distance girlfriend, and you can’t move on after this breakup. Let’s get some shit done! Come on!

Laneia —

Feb 24, 2018

gender identity

how to live with kids

parenting & family

Y’All Need Help #20: First Admit That You Don’t Know Yet

What should you do about a baby’s pronouns, how do you and your girlfriend both propose to each other, and how do you stop holding a candle for an idealized…

Laneia —

Feb 10, 2018

Y'All Need Help

you need help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #19: “Happy Senior Old Lady Giving Thumbs Up, Supporting Your Decision Fully”

You sent your Yes/No questions and now I’m answering all of them!!! Do what I say!!

Laneia —

Jan 27, 2018

non-binary

Y'All Need Help

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #17: You Don’t Know How Any of This Will End

You don’t want to wear a dress but also don’t want to disappoint your family, you’re not as excited about your girlfriend as you used to be, and your girlfriend…

Laneia —

Dec 30, 2017

family

we are adults now

love + sex

Y’All Need Help #16: You Can Do Things About You!

Being miserable at your 9-5 job, your family isn’t wild about your fiancee and you’re embarrassed to get married, you’re not wild about your current roommate, and people think you…

Laneia —

Dec 16, 2017