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I Don’t Love Gay Marriage but I’m Officiating My Friends’ Gay Wedding

Oh, I love attending weddings. Yes, yes. Flirting with a bridesmaid is like a Top 10 activity for me. But marriage does not fit snugly into my personal definition of…

Rebecca —

Aug 5, 2024

love is sometimes not a lie

lesbian weddings

My Wife and I Eloped, but I Still Want a Big Wedding One Day

It feels amazing to call Beth my wife. The thought of not being able to marry her because I was too hung up on the perfect wedding, scared me.

Sa’iyda Shabazz —

Feb 14, 2024

lesbian weddings

The Times I Stayed in the Closet While Wedding Planning

Planning a queer wedding isn’t without its complications, especially when you live in a place trying to push LGBTQ folks out of public life.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Feb 8, 2024

#affiliatemarketing

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Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding

As a plus sized baddie on a budget, I’ve listed these gay wedding outfit options from least expensive to most expensive. It’s hard to be gay and look cool and…

Em Win —

Jan 30, 2024

lesbian weddings

How To Make the Website for Your Lesbian Wedding

I put the date on my website homepage no less than three times because apparently GAYS CAN’T READ.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Jan 18, 2024

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How To Set the Dress Code for Your Queer Wedding

We’re queering dress codes!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Jan 8, 2024

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How To Make Planning Your Queer Wedding HOT

Wedding planning isn’t exactly known for being sexy, but we found a way to make it so.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Sep 25, 2023

lesbian weddings

How To Find a Queer Wedding Photographer

A wedding photographer plays an intimate role, and having a queer one for your gay wedding can mean a lot.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Sep 17, 2023

you need help

lesbian weddings

You Need Help: Should I Invite My Friends’ Whole Polycule to My Wedding?

You can invite or not invite whoever you want to your wedding.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

May 16, 2023

Blush and Bashful

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Blush and Bashful: How To Plan a Lesbian Wedding Ceremony

Somewhere in between thrifting 50 floral print hankies and meeting with the queer chef who is catering my wedding, I realized that I had to actually… figure out what I…

Vanessa —

May 11, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: How To Save Money on Your Lesbian Wedding

There is no right or wrong way to host a wedding — but when you’re thinking about how to save money at your gay wedding, it’s a good idea to…

Vanessa —

Apr 27, 2023

Blush and Bashful

lesbian weddings

Blush and Bashful: Why Am I So Stressed About a Wedding Hashtag?

I learned some weird things about wedding hashtags while fixating on this.

Vanessa —

Apr 13, 2023