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  • What Does It Mean to Be a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?
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    What Does It Mean to Be
    a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?

    Riese
    Sep 5, 2023
  • Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex
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    Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other
    Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex

    Riese
    Jul 31, 2023
  • Tops, Bottoms, Switches: One Last Look at All The Survey Data
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    Tops, Bottoms, Switches: One Last
    Look at All The Survey Data

    Riese
    Aug 7, 2018
  • What Does It Mean To Be a Switch in Lesbian Sex?
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    What Does It Mean To
    Be a Switch in Lesbian Sex?

    Riese
    Jul 24, 2018
  • What Does It Mean to Be a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?
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    What Does It Mean to Be
    a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?

    Riese
    Sep 5, 2023
  • Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex
    lesbian sex

    Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other
    Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex

    Riese
    Jul 31, 2023
  • Tops, Bottoms, Switches: One Last Look at All The Survey Data
    lesbian sex

    Tops, Bottoms, Switches: One Last
    Look at All The Survey Data

    Riese
    Aug 7, 2018
  • What Does It Mean To Be a Switch in Lesbian Sex?
    lesbian sex

    What Does It Mean To
    Be a Switch in Lesbian Sex?

    Riese
    Jul 24, 2018
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What Does It Mean to Be a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?
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What Does It Mean to Be a “Bottom” or “Submissive” in Lesbian Sex?

What does it mean when to identify as a “bottom” or a “submissive” in queer sex? I come armed with data and some very vague answers.
Riese —
Sep 5, 2023
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Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex
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Service Tops, Bratty Bottoms and Pillow Princesses: Other Words You Use to Describe How You Have Sex

We’ve been talking about tops, bottoms and switches for a few weeks and today we’re doing a little glossary of the other words you use to describe how you have…
Riese —
Jul 31, 2023
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Tops, Bottoms, Switches: One Last Look at All The Survey Data
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Tops, Bottoms, Switches: One Last Look at All The Survey Data

In our last post dedicated to our tops / bottoms / switches survey, we’re looking at a broad overview of all the data.
Riese —
Aug 7, 2018
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What Does It Mean To Be a Switch in Lesbian Sex?
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What Does It Mean To Be a Switch in Lesbian Sex?

Today we’re using our sex survey data to talk about switches and also about those of you who identified as NONE OF THE ABOVE. Which is fine!
Riese —
Jul 24, 2018
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55 Very Deep Thoughts About Your Sex Life You Shared With Us On Our Recent Sex Survey
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55 Very Deep Thoughts About Your Sex Life You Shared With Us On Our Recent Sex Survey

“I’ve been dying to tell someone about how my partner and I finally found a name for our new dildo and it’s Antoni”
Riese —
Jul 23, 2018
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What Does It Mean to Be a “Top” or a “Dominant” in Lesbian Sex?
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What Does It Mean to Be a “Top” or a “Dominant” in Lesbian Sex?

It’s time for part two of our series on what queer women and trans people are talking about when they talk about tops, bottoms and switches. Today we are taking…
Riese —
Jul 17, 2018
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Tops, Bottoms, Switches, What Do You Mean: Take Our Autostraddle Lesbian & Queer Sex Survey
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Tops, Bottoms, Switches, What Do You Mean: Take Our Autostraddle Lesbian & Queer Sex Survey

What does it mean to be a top, bottom, or switch? What about dominant or submissive? We were gonna tell you but decided to ask you first.
Riese —
Jun 26, 2018
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