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  • The Perfect Queer Poem: For Facing Our Enemies
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    The Perfect Queer Poem:
    For Facing Our Enemies

    Natalie
    Jun 24, 2019
  • The Perfect Queer Poem: For When it Doesn’t Matter if You Want to Be Her or F*ck Her
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    The Perfect Queer Poem: For When it Doesn’t Matter
    if You Want to Be Her or F*ck Her

    Natalie
    Jun 17, 2019
  • The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Need to Find Your Body
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    The Perfect Queer Poem: When
    You Need to Find Your Body

    Natalie
    Jun 10, 2019
  • The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Don’t Feel The Need to Explain Anything to the Straights
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    The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Don’t Feel
    The Need to Explain Anything to the Straights

    Natalie
    Jun 3, 2019
  • The Perfect Queer Poem: For Facing Our Enemies
    book features

    The Perfect Queer Poem:
    For Facing Our Enemies

    Natalie
    Jun 24, 2019
  • The Perfect Queer Poem: For When it Doesn’t Matter if You Want to Be Her or F*ck Her
    book features

    The Perfect Queer Poem: For When it Doesn’t Matter
    if You Want to Be Her or F*ck Her

    Natalie
    Jun 17, 2019
  • The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Need to Find Your Body
    book features

    The Perfect Queer Poem: When
    You Need to Find Your Body

    Natalie
    Jun 10, 2019
  • The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Don’t Feel The Need to Explain Anything to the Straights
    book features

    The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Don’t Feel
    The Need to Explain Anything to the Straights

    Natalie
    Jun 3, 2019
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the perfect queer poem
The Perfect Queer Poem: For Facing Our Enemies
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The Perfect Queer Poem: For Facing Our Enemies

We stay open, even when our minds are swayed by bitterness and despair, because our queer lives depend on knowing that we don’t have to live like this. We turn…
Natalie —
Jun 24, 2019
the perfect queer poem
The Perfect Queer Poem: For When it Doesn’t Matter if You Want to Be Her or F*ck Her
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The Perfect Queer Poem: For When it Doesn’t Matter if You Want to Be Her or F*ck Her

H.D. sometimes had a fraught relationship with her own bisexuality, feeling pulled towards either lesbianism or heterosexuality rather than feeling her queerness as an integrated whole. Reconciling her bisexuality was…
Natalie —
Jun 17, 2019
the perfect queer poem
The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Need to Find Your Body
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The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Need to Find Your Body

A gut feeling is intuition, sure, but it’s also something that announces HERE is the body, NOW is the body, RIGHT NOW.
Natalie —
Jun 10, 2019
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The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Don’t Feel The Need to Explain Anything to the Straights
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The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Don’t Feel The Need to Explain Anything to the Straights

It’s June, it’s June, we’re living, it’s June. Do you feel our powers rising with the heat, our stares lengthening with the daylight, our desires coming on like freak lightening?
Natalie —
Jun 3, 2019
the perfect queer poem
The Perfect Queer Poem: For Defining Your Boundaries
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The Perfect Queer Poem: For Defining Your Boundaries

The line breaks are hard to take. They make the poem feel like a fight: not knowing when to stop, talking over one another, losing your thread, gasping for air…
Natalie —
May 27, 2019
the perfect queer poem
The Perfect Queer Poem: For Making an Altar
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The Perfect Queer Poem: For Making an Altar

“Corpse Flower” gathers those petals, each one placed on the altar as every word is placed in the poem. The sweetness of a petal curling up to touch itself.
Natalie —
May 20, 2019
the perfect queer poem
The Perfect Queer Poem: For a Stone Sensibility
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The Perfect Queer Poem: For a Stone Sensibility

Bishop wrote seventeen drafts of this poem, so that’s one hundred and thirty six iterations of master and disaster. The losses pile up in a life, and each time you…
Natalie —
May 13, 2019
sappho
the perfect queer poem
The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Need to Break Up With Your Lover Who Is Also Your Best Friend
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The Perfect Queer Poem: When You Need to Break Up With Your Lover Who Is Also Your Best Friend

So much of what we might think of as queer lyric poetry comes is set by Sappho’s example: her attempts to speak her desire so emphatically that it wills love…
Natalie —
May 6, 2019
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