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  • A beautiful crew of big girls posing outside! Watch out for the big grrrls ass
    culture

    The Drop: Lizzo’s “Watch Out for the Big
    Grrrls” has Depth, Drama — and So Much Ass

    danijanae
    Mar 25, 2022
  • image shows three screenshots from three differernt music videos where each lead singer is posing with a thin romantic love interest.
    music

    The Drop: When Will Black Queer Artists
    Realize That Fat Black Girls Need Love Too?

    danijanae
    Aug 2, 2021
  • Image shows three black people (Jada Pinkett Smith, Gabrielle Smith and Willow Smith) close up with a red arc behind them.
    television

    The Drop: Willow Smith Talks Polyamory with
    Jada and Gammy at The Red Table

    danijanae
    Apr 28, 2021
  • Lil Nas X queer music video promo Image shows two lil nas X's in a reimaging of the "The creation of Adam" by Michelangelo. They are both sitting in the clouds, one reaches out a finger to touch a hand that is on the end of an arrow.
    music

    The Drop: Lil Nas X’s Dykey Aunts Are
    Proud of MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)

    danijanae
    Mar 31, 2021
  • A beautiful crew of big girls posing outside! Watch out for the big grrrls ass
    culture

    The Drop: Lizzo’s “Watch Out for the Big
    Grrrls” has Depth, Drama — and So Much Ass

    danijanae
    Mar 25, 2022
  • image shows three screenshots from three differernt music videos where each lead singer is posing with a thin romantic love interest.
    music

    The Drop: When Will Black Queer Artists
    Realize That Fat Black Girls Need Love Too?

    danijanae
    Aug 2, 2021
  • Image shows three black people (Jada Pinkett Smith, Gabrielle Smith and Willow Smith) close up with a red arc behind them.
    television

    The Drop: Willow Smith Talks Polyamory with
    Jada and Gammy at The Red Table

    danijanae
    Apr 28, 2021
  • Lil Nas X queer music video promo Image shows two lil nas X's in a reimaging of the "The creation of Adam" by Michelangelo. They are both sitting in the clouds, one reaches out a finger to touch a hand that is on the end of an arrow.
    music

    The Drop: Lil Nas X’s Dykey Aunts Are
    Proud of MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)

    danijanae
    Mar 31, 2021
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A beautiful crew of big girls posing outside! Watch out for the big grrrls ass
culture

The Drop: Lizzo’s “Watch Out for the Big Grrrls” has Depth, Drama — and So Much Ass

Dani Janae and Shelli Nicole chat through their thoughts on Lizzo’s new reality series that’s for the big girls!!
danijanae —
Mar 25, 2022
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image shows three screenshots from three differernt music videos where each lead singer is posing with a thin romantic love interest.
music

The Drop: When Will Black Queer Artists Realize That Fat Black Girls Need Love Too?

These music videos just perpetuate the idea that you have to look a certain way to be worthy of love.
danijanae —
Aug 2, 2021
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Image shows three black people (Jada Pinkett Smith, Gabrielle Smith and Willow Smith) close up with a red arc behind them.
television

The Drop: Willow Smith Talks Polyamory with Jada and Gammy at The Red Table

The first thing I thought when I saw this episode was coming out was damn, Willow is about to put herself through some emotional labor trying to explain this aspect…
danijanae —
Apr 28, 2021
the drop
Lil Nas X queer music video promo Image shows two lil nas X's in a reimaging of the "The creation of Adam" by Michelangelo. They are both sitting in the clouds, one reaches out a finger to touch a hand that is on the end of an arrow.
music

The Drop: Lil Nas X’s Dykey Aunts Are Proud of MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)

This is someone showing their rejection of the oftentimes traumatizing cishet Christian ideals many young Black queers are currently being taught. We live for anything that will shorten (or make…
danijanae —
Mar 31, 2021
hulu
the drop
Andra Day as Billie Holiday
film

The Drop: “The United States vs. Billie Holiday” Is Big on Trauma, Slight on Queerness

“I fully understand they have to paint a picture of the times, and deep racial trauma and pain were a part of those times, but I found myself wondering why…
danijanae —
Mar 1, 2021
essay collection
nonfiction
Black Furures by Kimberly Drew and Jenna Wortham
book features

The Drop: Jenna Wortham and Kimberly Drew’s “Black Futures” Is a Triumphant Celebration of Black Voices and Black Innovation

Black people are the future, creating some of the most beautiful and challenging art we have seen, forging a way out of the past while being entirely cognizant of it.…
danijanae —
Jan 31, 2021
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The Drop: SassyBlack Makes Space for Black Women to Feel and Get Funky
music

The Drop: SassyBlack Makes Space for Black Women to Feel and Get Funky

“I can’t help but think, with the election so fresh on my mind, how black women are tasked with saving everyone including ourselves. What an emotional toll that takes. Like…
danijanae —
Nov 30, 2020
hulu
lena waithe
Elle Lorraine and Lena Waithe in Bad Hair
movie reviews

Hulu’s “Bad Hair” Skewers Racist Beauty Standards in a Film That’s Half Horror, Half Satire

Dani and Shelli got together to chat about Justin Simien’s new satirical horror movie, their own relationships with their hair over the years, and being over the compulsion to make…
danijanae —
Oct 27, 2020
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