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The Best Breakup Advice You’ll Ever Get

“The world is supposed to feel as though it is ending and you are supposed to know only in the most dormant recesses of the backmost corner of your soul…

Riese —

Apr 18, 2024

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How to Have Lesbian Sex For the First Time

This is how we do it, it’s Sunday night and I’m feeling right, the party is here on the Lez Side.

the team —

Nov 13, 2019

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The Lifespan of a Lesbian Heartbreak

That’s it, I’m dating myself.

phoenix —

Feb 17, 2012

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relationships

Mind The (Age) Gap: How to Do a May/December Lesbian Relationship

May-December (or even May-October) romances can present occasional challenges, they can also be awesome.

Butch Wonders —

Feb 8, 2012

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alcohol

the scene

Having Fun at a Gay Bar 101: Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

At some point, between the night where my friend walked to her ex’s house with my keys, phone and money in her boot, the night where I sobbed to strangers…

Lizz —

Jan 21, 2012

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intimate partner violence

relationships

You Need Help: When Your Girlfriend is Abusive

“Two or three things I know, two or three things I know for sure, and one of them is that if we are not beautiful to each other, we cannot…

Riese —

Jan 2, 2012

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How Many Girls Want Girl-on-Girl Action?: A Sophisticated Statistical Analysis

Remember that time we told you 60% of heterosexual women were attracted to other women? Yeah that’s not true and it’s one of many numbers/statistics we’ll be discussing today!!

Riese —

Dec 22, 2011

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