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View From The Top: Where I’m Going

I feel lighter than I’ve been in a year. I feel ecstatic with the possibilities. I feel giddy, like I’m falling in love.

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Apr 25, 2017

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View From The Top: Where I’ve Been

Before any of my other sexuality identities, I was kinky.

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Apr 11, 2017

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View From The Top: A Short History of What I Learned From Dating

I wish someone had told me sooner that I had been seeking mastery all this time, but I wouldn’t have been ready to hear it. Until r came along.

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Mar 28, 2017

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View From The Top: Topping While Butch

It took me years to settle into the idea that masculinity and topping were actually, authentically my identities.

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Mar 14, 2017

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View From The Top: Is Kink The New Vanilla?

You just have to be honest about what you’re looking for, and keep going after it.

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Feb 28, 2017

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View From The Top: The Thing About Sadism

I want to break things — holes, walls, people. I want to feel the begging in my pelvis and let it ignite the fire under me to burn bright up…

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Feb 14, 2017

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View From The Top: I’ll Take That Risk, And That Knife Play

“He’d asked me about it before, saying it was something he’d always wanted. And now, he was quivering on the floor, looking up at me, handing me an open knife…

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Jan 31, 2017

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View From The Top: Palette of Permission

In the beginning checking in all the time was useful. But after six months of it, Sarah was getting annoyed.

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Jan 17, 2017

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View From The Top: From Physical to Psychological

“But when we changed the game a little, and added just a few little things, our play soared to new mountain summits I hadn’t even known we could reach, or…

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Jan 3, 2017

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View From The Top: Five Favorite Protocols

Within D/s relationships specifically, protocols are explicit, negotiated with the needs and best interests of everyone in mind, subject to change based on reflection and consent.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Dec 21, 2016

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View From The Top: It’s Protocol

We thrive on these everyday tiny moments where we both get to be reminded of our agreed-upon power differential.

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Dec 6, 2016

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View From The Top: Aftercare For Tops

“Perhaps trust is my biggest kink. That would explain a lot.”

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Nov 22, 2016