sexting

Roundtables

sexting

sex

8 Queer Sexting Experts on How We Digitally Do It

Voice memos, FaceTime, short videos, live photos, nudes, role-playing, classic texting — sexting can look like a lot of different things. 

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Jun 12, 2025

sexting

sex

What’s a Nudes Protocol and Why You Should Have One

A nudes protocol (or whatever you wanna call it) is a personalized framework of rules about how your digital sexual data should be handled.

Summer Tao —

Mar 11, 2024

NSFW

Queer Erotica

af+

S L I C K: Sweet Dreams

“I had a kind of dirty dream about you. Do you want to hear about it?” You laugh, and fuck, that sound twists itself inside my chest like a fist.…

Hansen —

Mar 11, 2021

sex advice

sexting

sex

How to Write a Really Hot Sext in 5 Easy Steps

Here is a beginner’s guide to sending really hot sexts to your casual date, your girlfriend, and every babe in between. You’re welcome.

Vanessa —

Jan 14, 2021

Lists/Top 10s

NSFW

love + sex

Oh Duck: The Autocorrect Adds You Need for Better Queer Sexting

A spectre is haunting queer sexting — the spectre of “duck.” Here’s how to fix your autocorrect and what to add to your dictionary for better queer sexting.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 25, 2020

iphone

mobile technology

sex

Safe Sexting: Tech Tips for the Stress-Free Sexting You Deserve

The world is full of unknown and terrifying possibilities, like accidentally sending a nude to the family group chat because it was the most recent thing on your camera roll.…

Rachel —

Mar 12, 2019

sexting

sex

Ready For Your Close-Up: The Beginner’s Guide to Taking a Sexy Solo Video

You’re hot, you know it, and you want someone else to know it too. Be it a partner, a crush, the internet at large, yourself — you name it, you…

Courtney —

Nov 27, 2018

101s

sexting

sex

10 Tips For Better Lesbian Sexting

Here’s how to take your sexting to the next level, including what to say, how to say it, how to give good sext and more.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 27, 2018

'zines/magazines

bdsm

af+

More Real Live Lesbian Sext(ing the Zine)

“You are so so soft and just achingly warm and good and I’m just dying with the urge to pin and grind and tease and make you even wetter for…

Ryan Yates —

Jul 27, 2017

advice

greatest hits

sex

22 Easy Steps to Rethinking Your Whole Relationship Through Late-Night Nudes

Is that insecurity in my pocket or have you just not sexted me back yet?

Courtney —

May 18, 2017

'zines/magazines

bdsm

af+

Real Live Lesbian Sext(ing the Zine)

“Something about our conversations just makes me want to take off my underwear. And by ‘something’ I mean ‘everything.'”

Ryan Yates —

May 9, 2017

bdsm

bottoms up

love + sex

Bottoms Up: She Wants Me To Send Nudes But I Think She’s a Fuckboi

Nude selfies are how I first learned to see myself as a sexual being, and now they also let me determine how others see me — especially within kinky power…

Ari —

Mar 22, 2016