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You Need Help: You’re Poly And Married And Want To Date

You can be poly and married and want to date, but no one will know what your deal is until you tell them, so tell them up front.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 8, 2015

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You Need Help: You’re Vanilla And Your Partner Is Kinky

How to explore kinky sex with a kinky partner when you have no experience whatsoever.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Sep 15, 2015

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You Need Help: When a Yeast Infection is Cramping Your Sex Style

Let’s get down to business. The business of getting down to business with an itchy vag.

KaeLyn —

Jun 18, 2015

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You Need Help: Two Bottoms, One Relationship

The thing about being a top or a bottom is that it’s all in your head.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 18, 2015

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You Need Help: Getting Better At Feeling Good

“My body does not seem to be able to handle being aroused for more than 5–10 minutes at a time… Is there any way I can retrain my body to…

Rachel —

Mar 16, 2015

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You Need Help: When Doing [This Sex Act] Makes You Want To Lie Down and Curl Into The Tiniest Ball

“I want to fulfill her sexually and sensually and I want to help her explore her various interests and fantasies. But I can’t even think about hitting her without conflating…

Riese —

Feb 4, 2015

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You Need Help: You (Want to Be) Too Sexy for Your Shirt

You can do a super hot striptease for your girlfriend even if you are not, in fact, a Pussycat Doll.

KaeLyn —

Jan 21, 2015

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You Need Help: You Think You’re Bad At Sex

“Forget all your ideas about what the person across the table from you might want until they tell you so you can actually listen when they do.”

Ryan Yates —

Nov 13, 2014

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You Need Help: So Your Girlfriend Never Ever Ever Wants To Have Sex

“Do I continue to sacrifice my own needs in order to stay in this relationship where I am undesired, or do I end a relationship with so much love and…

Riese —

Nov 7, 2014

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You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Has Body Issues And You Want to Initiate Sex

If you wait until your girlfriend with body issues is feeing just really attractive and good about herself to approach the idea of sex, you are, sooner or later, going…

Ryan Yates —

Oct 16, 2014

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You Need Help: She Is Going Down For 15+ Minutes

Making love means never having to say you’re sorry.

Riese —

Jul 16, 2014

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You Need Help: Here Is A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex

Download it, print it out and go bananas.

A.E. Osworth —

Jun 19, 2014