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You Need Help: Relearning Sex with Chronic Pain

The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.

Guest —

Nov 27, 2017

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You Need Help: Getting Out of Your Head and Into Her Pants

Here’s how to forget about the world during sex and be present instead.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 16, 2017

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You Need Help: What To Wear To A Kink Party

What to wear when you don’t want to channel Leather Mommi Barbie.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 9, 2017

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You Need Help: Even Sex Gods Get Anxious Sometimes

Share your feelings with your partner, stud.

Christina Tesoro —

Aug 22, 2017

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You Need Help: You Can Want Sex Exactly as Much as You Want (or Don’t)

“Sex positive” doesn’t mean you have to have sex.

Carrie —

Aug 17, 2017

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You Need Help: Grad School Killed Your Sex Life

Instead of thinking about how your sex life is dead, think about how it could be reborn.

Christina Tesoro —

Jun 14, 2017

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You Need Help: Why Don’t I Like Going Down On My Girlfriend?

“I really really want to like going down on her, but I don’t. It feels overwhelming — the smell, the taste, the trouble breathing.”

KaeLyn —

Jan 18, 2017

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What I Want to Hear in Bed

That’s what’s tricky about disabled sexuality: most people, disabled or not or anyplace in between, have no idea how to discuss it. So fear of “saying the wrong thing” takes…

Carrie —

Oct 17, 2016

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You Need Help: Issues With Strap-On Size

What do you do when your girlfriend has a small vaginal opening and wants to have penetrative sex?

Ari —

Jun 2, 2016

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10 Tips For Texting About Sex (and Having the Kind You Want)

“You will have the best sex possible when you abandon yourself to pleasure.” The fastest way to find that feeling of abandon? Telling someone what to do to get you…

Lynsey —

Apr 26, 2016

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You Need Help: Old Sex Toys, New Partners

“So I’ve met someone new. And I’m wondering about my toys. I’ve heard it’s taboo to use the same toys on a new partner.”

A.E. Osworth —

Dec 29, 2015

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You Need Help: Getting It On After Hip Replacement Surgery

The good news is: your wife’s new hip will probably make your sex life even better! Here’s some tips for easing back into it.

KaeLyn —

Oct 12, 2015