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#gr82bgay

great to be gay day

community

Happy 2nd Annual “It’s Great to Be Gay” Day — We Sure Do Love Being Gay, And We Also Love You!

 Welcome to the second annual IT’S GREAT TO BE GAY DAY, an international holiday we invented… well, because we can. And also because EVERY SINGLE EFFING DAY!! is A GREAT…

the team —

Aug 20, 2020

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love + sex

Is That a Secure Attachment or Are You Just Happy to See Me: All About Our Attachment Styles

“Wow I’m making myself sound so fucked up! I promise I got 30 whole percent in secure attachment.”

the team —

Aug 19, 2020

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tv roundtable

television

What Songs From Gay TV Episodes Make You Cry in Public?

“I used to joke that it’s the song I want to get married to. And maybe I’m not joking.”

The TV Team —

Aug 14, 2020

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love + sex

What We Wish We’d Known Before We Started Gay Dating

“You don’t have to be friends with the girl you met on Tinder (even if she says “wanna be friends instead?” after two dates and some exceedingly mediocre sex).”

the team —

Aug 6, 2020

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love + sex

What We Wish We’d Known Before Having Gay Sex for the First Time

“Porn and MTV made me feel like every time I had lesbian sex there would be fireworks, crying and cuddling. Not the case.”

the team —

Jul 20, 2020

netflix

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tv reviews

She-Ra and the Princesses of Power’s Final Season Gives The Gays Everything They Want

“Even after all the growth and apologies, all the blushing and teasing, all the conversations about what they both want, I couldn’t let myself believe it. I was so afraid…

Heather Hogan —

May 19, 2020

covid-19

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dating

How We Feel About Dating During The Coronavirus Pandemic

“It feels like dating is all of the bad parts with none of the good parts.”

Vanessa —

May 12, 2020

lesbian visibility day

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culture

Lesbian Visibility Day Roundtable: The Art In Your Lesbian Canon

What is in your lesbian canon? What books, movies and music do you consider essential lesbian material and/or lesbian art that is essential to your own understanding of your identity?

Riese —

Apr 26, 2020

covid-19

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health

Roundtable: From Our Shelters, Places to Yours

It’s a weird time, friends and loved ones; we’re all feeling disconnected and scared, and many of you are, too. We’re here to share a little about how we’re spending…

the team —

Mar 20, 2020

2020 election

2020 presidential campaign

politics + activism

I Care But I’m Restless, I’m Here But I’m Really Gone: A 2020 Presidential Election Roundtable

The 2020 presidential election is a classic Alanis Morissette one hand preparing our dystopian bunker, the other one playing the piano, situation. Our writers and editors tell us about their…

the team —

Mar 2, 2020

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dating

What’s In Our Bags for Hot First Dates

Dating is an adventure for the daring and intrepid, often requiring resources like self-awareness, a group chat, clean jeans, and therapy. Sometimes it requires even more concrete things to throw…

the team —

Feb 6, 2020

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the l word: generation q

Our Favorite Sex Scenes and ‘Ships of “The L Word: Generation Q” Season One

The entire TV Team weighs in on the sex scenes and potential/actual relationships that warmed our hearts and thighs during Season One of “The L Word: Generation Q.”

Riese —

Jan 27, 2020