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What’s a Normal Human Behavior That Gives You the Ick?

Listen, did we have a little TOO MUCH FUN ranting about our various icks? Maybe so. And now you can have some fun with us, too, delving into the various…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Jun 28, 2025

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The People We Miss From Breakups Other Than Our Exes

I think of all the people who exited my life because of breakups and how neither of us knew our final conversations with each other were exactly that.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Jun 23, 2025

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sex

8 Queer Sexting Experts on How We Digitally Do It

Voice memos, FaceTime, short videos, live photos, nudes, role-playing, classic texting — sexting can look like a lot of different things.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Jun 12, 2025

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community

The Horrors Persist, but So Does Queer Community

If you’re struggling to find your queer community or just looking for other avenues for deep connection, our team shares our own approaches and the unexpected places where you can…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

May 16, 2025

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polyamory

dating

12 Queers on Where We Fall on the Polyamory/Monogamy Scale

Monogamy and polyamory exist on a spectrum and often aren’t fixed black-and-white categories.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

May 10, 2025

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breakups

Our Best Memories With Our Worst Exes

Even bad relationships contain good memories.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

May 6, 2025

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house & garden

What’s Your Favorite + Least Favorite Household Chore?

Turns out a lot of us hate folding laundry.

the team —

Nov 22, 2024

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lesbian dating apps

14 Queer People Share Their Favorite Dating Apps and Sites of All Time

For pretty much as long as the internet has existed, queers have used it to find each other. We were online dating before it was the norm.

the team —

Nov 13, 2024

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community

The Recurring Dreams and Nightmares That Haunt Us

Gay people talking about their dreams? How groundbreaking.

the team —

Nov 2, 2024

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dating

11 Queer People Share How They Flirt

“Did Shakespeare teach me how to flirt? MAYBE SO.”

the team —

Oct 21, 2024

divorce

Divorce Week

Tami Taylor from Friday Night Lights, Athena Grant from 911, and Iris West from the Flash, all in dark sunset overlayed colors

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These Fictional Straight Women Should Divorce Their Husbands (And Marry Me)

“Tami Taylor put on those aviator sunglasses and I was like, girl you need me. She flipped her hair to the side and I was like, girl you need me.…

The TV Team —

Feb 13, 2024

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In a collage against a pink background, left to right in the back row: Cheryl Dunye playing with her hat, Vanessa Friedman hugging friends, Audre Lorde in black and white, and Natalie Diaz smirking at the camera. Front row, left to right: Shelli Nicole as a little girl on picture day, Heather Hogan smiling in a tie, Malinda Lo looking directly into camera with an intense gaze, and Kayla Kumari taking a selfie with her phone. All of these photos are highlighted with background shadows in the color of the lesbian pride flag.

community

Lesbian Visibility Week 2022: Where We Look For Lesbianspiration

This for Lesbian Visibility Day, we are talking about the people we look to for LESBIANSPIRATION. Did you thank a lesbian for changing your life today?

the team —

Apr 26, 2022