rope bondage

101s

bdsm

sex

Shibari 101: Single- and Double-Column Ties

Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.

cee —

May 10, 2023

fatness

NSFW

af+

S L I C K: The Cunt

Powdered hemp cutting into soft, bruised flesh. Jax tries to hook a finger between rope and skin and finds there isn’t room. It excites them.

Gretchen Felker-Martin —

Sep 24, 2020

bdsm

kink

sex

Queer Women and Leather: A Culture Clash That Has Nothing to Do With Veganism

An understanding of the leather community can help us co-exist, share spaces and celebrate all of the different ways to live queer lives.

Natalie West —

Jun 20, 2018

101s

bdsm

sex

Shibari 101: Hogtie

Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!

cee —

May 31, 2018

101s

bdsm

love + sex

Shibari 101: Leg Tie

Here’s how to do a basic shibari leg tie for beginners!

cee —

May 24, 2018

101s

bdsm

sex

Shibari 101: Basic Chest Harness

Here’s a tutorial for how to make a basic shibari chest harness!

cee —

May 17, 2018

101s

bdsm

love + sex

Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage

Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.

cee —

May 3, 2018

Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Lesbrarian

bdsm

book lists

8 Lesbian BDSM Novels to Curl Your Toes (and Maybe Melt Your Heart)

Spend an evening with a good book and a paddle.

Casey —

Jan 18, 2017

a-camp workshop

camp autostraddle

sex

Bondage 101: How To Tie Someone Up By The Ankles

How to tie someone up by the ankles when you don’t know how to tie someone up.

Ryan Yates —

May 23, 2014

kink

Lists/Top 10s

sex

Top Five Ways To Restrain Your Sex Partner (NSFW)

If you’re into that kind of thing, restraining people is a super-fun sexual activity! Here are five ways to do it.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 26, 2014

advice

kink

sex

You Need Help: So You Want To Try Being A BDSM Top

“It’s like a magic confidence talisman, that blindfold is.”

A.E. Osworth —

Feb 27, 2014

kink

rope bondage

sex

Bondage 101: How To Tie Someone Up

How to tie someone up when you don’t know how to tie someone up.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 10, 2013