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‘I Want To Be With a Woman, but My Inexperience Makes Me Feel Really Insecure’

“I fear being ‘made fun of’ or ‘rejected’ in a way.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Dec 31, 2024

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"I've been trying to find resources/advice for how to support a partner who is starting the process of taking hormones, but am really struggling to find information that isn't transphobic."

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‘I Want To Support My Partner Who Is Starting HRT’

“I know there will be need to be a lot of conversations about what they’re feeling and conversations specific to how I can support them.”

Summer Tao —

Dec 24, 2024

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Sarah Paulson wearing a headband that says THIS IS 50 at her 50th birthday

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No Filter: Celesbians Were Really Partying It Up at Sarah Paulson’s 50th Birthday Party

Including a special Star Trek-themed birthday tribute from Tig Notaro!

Christina Tucker —

Dec 18, 2024

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you need help

"I would very much like to 'travel downtown' without it ruining my whole face."

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‘Every Time I Go Down on My Partner, I Get the Nastiest Acne of My Entire Life’

I haven’t struggled with acne almost at all in my lifetime, but after eating my partner out, I break out with a “beard” of zits that lasts all week.

Summer Tao —

Dec 17, 2024

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No Filter: This Jen Beattie and Ali Krieger Video Is Too Cute

Also, is the Wicked press tour STILL happening?

Christina Tucker —

Dec 11, 2024

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you need help

"I have been struggling with a lot of shame about this but I'm also really excited."

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‘I Want To Call My Partner Mommy’

“The issue for me right now is talking about it!”

Summer Tao —

Dec 10, 2024

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No Filter: Ali Krieger Is Grateful For Your Love, Sick Of “Dishonesty and Misinformation”

And more queer celebrity updates from IG!

Christina Tucker —

Dec 4, 2024

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you need help

"My experience thus far on the apps has been a lot of perfectly nice conversations, but nothing more than lightly flirty."

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‘I Want To Sext a Stranger for Self-Discovery’

“Last year, in my 30s, I started a self-discovery process that has included getting on dating apps after not dating since I was a teenager.”

Nico —

Dec 3, 2024

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No Filter: Towa Bird’s Hair Is an Inspiration

Plus, Brittney and Cherelle Griner are looking SO CUTE as parents — and more gay updates from Instagram.

Christina Tucker —

Nov 27, 2024

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you need help

"Oh my god I cant explain how dull 70% of our text conversations are."

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‘I Love My Girlfriend but Sometimes She Annoys Me’

“I feel bad because obviously she’s texting me because she wants to talk to me, but I don’t like texting and I don’t want to constantly have such empty conversations.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Nov 26, 2024

chappell roan

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No Filter: Chappell Roan Deserves a Break

Plus, a photo of Melissa King that will have you screaming YES, CHEF!!!!!!

Christina Tucker —

Nov 20, 2024

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No Filter: Cardi B Will Never Forget Where She Comes From

Plus, Janelle Monáe in the Criterion closet!! And more gay celeb happenings on IG.

Christina Tucker —

Oct 16, 2024