Queer Outfit of the Week: It’s Cold Inside the Party!
Last week many of you were appalled by my Polar Vortex Party Outfit, particularly in that one might freeze their ass off wearing such outfit outside. I’ve since decided that that’s the outfit you wear inside the party!
But then I thought, you know what? That’s actually a great idea! Who doesn’t have a friend who insists on throwing parties at their apartment despite the fact that they always keep the heat at 50 degrees and leave the back door open so her cat can get out?
With that in mind, I present to you just the warmest coolest outfit for when it’s still cold inside the party.
If you think you might be cold inside, you want to make sure you layer. My favorite way to layer is by throwing a quilted vest over a tweed blazer. Remember though, in this situation you don’t want a middle school Old Navy tech vest or even a puffy Patagonia ski vest. You should aim for something stylized and quilted but not too bulky. As for the blazer, you should go for one in a contrasting but not overpowering color.
Since the blazer and jacket will be sort of bulky, you’ll want to pair this with slim-fit pants. Jeggings look great but you might want to opt for straight-leg jeans if you plan on wearing long underwear or fleece leggings underneath.
Most important to this look are the accessories. You’ll want to get some wicked thick wool socks and hearty leather boots. Leather boots, in general, are much warmer than loafers or really any type of canvas shoes. Double warmth bonus if the leather is lined with wool, flannel or shearling. Additionally, I suggest going for a simple hat but a pair of fun, colorful mittens. Hats draw much more attention than mittens, and it’s much harder to be understated in a wacky hat. Maybe aim for a grey or black knit hat and wool convertible “glittens” which allow for free fingers. You wouldn’t want to be hindered from checking your iPhone.
Gap High Rise Skinny Jeans [$34.99] Wigwam Men’s El Pine Sock [$9.98] Breckelles Georgia boots [$20.94] Smith’s American Hat [$39.99] Manzella Women’s Snowflake Convertible Gloves [$20.00] Izod Boys Herringbone Blazer [$62.99] AG Adriano Goldschmied Men’s Quilted Vest [$60.62]
So maybe this isn’t the month to go outdoors. Maybe this is the month to bundle up just to stay in! Whatever you decide, remember that layers and wool are your best friends!
This is Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Polar Vortex Party
Hi is is really still snowing? Remember when we could do lots of fun things every week but now each week we’re like oops we’re fucked put on some boots and go shovel the snow you lazy bum. Why on earth should it even been this cold out?? Oh. The polar vortex.
So if it has to be this cold, than I suggest you throw a polar vortex party. Wait. I should back up. In case you’re unaware, the polar vortex is the reason everyone is suffering through -25 degree weather right now! I assume this means cool people in larger cities are maybe throwing a polar vortex party in which it is most definitely understood that you will sleep over because it’s too cold to leave. Perhaps this party involves spending time outside in the snow playing or, more realistically, going outside for a cigarette/to help your friend shovel out their car and then immediately heading back inside for more movies and Irish coffee. Okay, maybe polar vortex parties aren’t real– not yet anyways. But they will be if we all thrown them! And if you’re throwing a polar vortex party anyways, you should probably wear this week’s outfit.
At the heart of your polar vortex party outfit, or really any outdoor winter outfit, is an aura of being just so over winter. You are too cool for the cold. This is nicely achieved by a wool coat with leather arms. While such a coat provides the warmth of a wool coat, the leather arms pretend like you’re still hanging on to fall weather.
Brightly colored but seasonally appropriate pants are a must. You can’t let the cold keep your shining style down! This year plum is in style in a big way, which is particularly awesome because this hue is bold and unusual without relying on out of season bright blues and turquoises.
Be sure to layer this look with a scarf, a button-up (preferably flannel) and, well, maybe some long underwear. If you think it might be cold inside the party as well as outside, go for a lighter-weight scarf that is more comfortable as opposed to a thick wool one. A light lilac scarf, as shown here, complements plum pants perfectly, but any light colored scarf will breath life into your look.
For a butcher look, go for more straight legged pants and boxy, men’s jacket. For a more femme look you could swap the plum narrow slacks for a short plum skirt and a pair of thigh high black stockings over sheer black nylons. Regardless of your gender/style presentation, you can finish this look off with military style boots for a warm but chic look. Similarly no matter how you dress be sure not to forget your lesbian purse aka your keys attached to a carabiner.
Brooklyn Circus Varsity Moto Jacket // Brooks Brothers Solid Flannel Oxford // Levi 511 Slim Commuter Pants in Wine // Lilac Pashmina // Steve Madden Troopa Boots // Indera Thermal Undershirt
Whether you’re headed to a big blow out polar vortex party (seriously guys it’s real if we make it real) or just a regular freezing cold Saturday night at the bars, we’ve got a lot more winter outfits ahead of us. So pick up your favorite wool jacket and settle in.
This is Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Testing Out Your New Year’s Resolution in a Snow Storm
It’s January 1st, 2014 and you’re probably starting to chip away at your New Year’s Resolutions! I’ve made a lot of New Years Resolutions this year, primarily to be braver and bolder than ever before, and that includes finally wearing those things you’re scared of. You know, the thing you see everyone else wear but just aren’t sure you can pull off.
For me, that’s thigh-high stockings. I love thigh-high stockings, specifically over another pair of nylons, but I’m always scared to wear them. That’s why this week’s outfit, just perfect for that snow storm we have coming, features my New Year’s Resolution style and a big warm sweater.
A snowstorm is a great time to try out that New Years style you’ve been waiting for because, well, the stakes are super low. If you decide you hate it you can just chalk it up to a bad snow storm situation. If you love your new look, testing it out in a snow storm can be invigorating– helping you to brave the bad weather.
Still, when that big snow storm hits you might be tempted to just grab your thickest fleece lined leggings, slouchy hat, a V-neck sweater and your huge winter boots. Just like you do every storm. Instead I implore you to take the opportunity to layer up! Throw a funky pattern sweater over a dress over shorts over thigh-high stockings over nylons for layers and layers of cuteness and warmth.
Now, you might want to keep your warmest Sorel boots around while the snow is still piling up, but it’s always a good idea to have some smaller, lighter ankle boots or shoes to tromp through the snow when your feet get tired. Your neighborhood might be snowy for days, but you’ll get exhausted (and bored) if you keep lugging around your heavy snow boots.
long scarf // long-sleeve fit and flare dress // cable-knit sweater // thigh-high stockings // sheer nylons // lace-up ankle boots
I’ll be trying out this adorable thigh-high stockings look, but you should take this snow storm to try out your New Year’s resolution. Maybe you’ll throw on sultry dark berry-red lipstick while you shovel the walk. Maybe you’ll bind for the first time while you trek out to pick up more wood for the fire. This snow storm could be the perfect opportunity to try out suspenders alone in your heated cozy bedroom over and over again until you finally decide to sneak out in the blizzard bundled up, suspendended and all.
So you, yes, you right there. If you have a style you’re just dying to try in 2014 be sure to hit me up at lizz [at] autostraddle [dot] com and tell me just exactly what you want to see next week, and every week, this year.
This is Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Christmas Party
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
I may be Jewish but I’m pretty damn sure it ’tis the season for presents, family and cheesy movies with good music. Of course, all I care about is the plethora of holiday party invites that I’m sure must have gotten lost in the mail. Nothing beats shmoozing with 50 of your closest friend’s closest friends. Or, more realistically, your grandmother’s closest friends and bridge partners. But if you are so lucky as to waltz your way into a swanky holiday gala, I’ve got just the look for you.
This week’s look comes to us from Kipper Clothiers, a Bay Area custom clothiers committed to suits and shirts for the LGBT community. Fortunately, if you’re not living in the Bay Area or currently seeking custom made clothing, you can put this look together all on your own!
For a dressier holiday party a grey or blue suit is always a great place to start. Black can look a little like you’re on your way to a funeral and browns tends to make the greens and reds of the season more earthy than festive. If you don’t have a suit already, I suggest consulting with our in-depth suit sizing and buying guide.
Of course, any shmuck can slap on a suit and head out the door on Christmas Eve. The real party is in the festive color combinations. Now, I’m not one to go all hokey with red and green, but I do think choosing either a green or red patterned button up and correspondingly colored accessories is a nice way to pay homage to the colors of the season while keeping it classy. One thing to keep in mind is that while it’s fun for your accessories to be bold red, you might want to opt for a more muted wine color for your shirt. This makes your accessories pop while also preventing your shirt from becoming overpowering.
Patterned socks are extremely popular right now, but one reason this look is particularly successful is that solid red socks pick up the hues from the red shirt and striped bow tie without overpowering them. Between the shirt, bow tie and pocket square you have three perfectly corresponding simple patterns. But four? That’s a mess.
Finally, you want to finish off your look with a brown belt and brown shoes. Though black shoes are the classic mainstay of grey and navy suits, brown shoes, particularly brown oxfords, give just a hint of throwback dapper fashion. Plus, they strongly increase your chance of wearing the same shoes as your grandfather.
If you want to make this look a bit more tomboy femme, ditch the jacket and socks and swap in some narrow cropped trousers. But keep the bow tie — nothing looks cuter under the mistletoe than two girls in bow ties kissing.
Steve Madden Men’s Misionn Dress Shoe // Brooks Brothers Bow Tie // J.Jill Socks // Topman Leather Belt // Tommy Hilfiger Pocket Square // Brooks Brothers Shirt // Topman Premium Texture Navy Blazer // Topman Premium Textured Navy Pants
Nothing heats up the winter like a fun holiday party. Armed with the perfect holiday look you can forget about feeling self conscious, pour some mulled wine and rock out until Santa is forced to put you on the naughty list!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: First Snow Day
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
Winter is here! Seriously guys! Right this very moment there is snow on the ground and in our hearts. I, for one, suited up in my favorite inclement weather look. Sure I’d rather have been curled up under a down blanket by the heater, but I’ve got big plans and business to attend to. Work, school, errands and, yes, eventually home. All in the drifts of the first snow shower of the season. Plus, I’ve finally perfected the look for just such a day! All day I walked around thinking that I wanted to share with the world my most perfect early winter snowy day outfit. But where on earth was I going to find a queer girl wearing my exact outfit willing to take pictures and post them on Autostraddle.com? Oh.
Check out my cute hat
The secret to this look is that while you appear stylish and practical, it’s actually also the snuggliest outfit ever! Yes, I am willing to go on the record saying this is the snuggliest outfit ever. That’s why it’s just perfect for a snow day!
Start with your comfy basics: a merino wool sweater and fleece-lined leggings. I want to reiterate that the leggings should be fleece-lined to maximize warmth. Starting with warm comfy basics is essential as you want to be able to seamlessly be able to come inside from a blistering winter wonderland and curl up with a pot of tea.
Your next stop on this cute/practical/snuggly journey is accessories that can be worn indoors or outdoors. While you probably can’t get away with wearing your mittens indoors, a beanie is the classic all-the-time outdoor hat. Plus, in the words of Vanessa, “The perfect slouchy hat can read really gay.” The big secret, however, is these rain boots: they’re lined with shearling. In lieu of these specific boots, however, any fleece lined rain boots are great for early winter when you don’t want your feet to sweat in heavy snow boots.
Brrrr. It’s cold in here. There must be some queers in the atmosphere.
If you decide to venture out into the snow, I recommend a hooded wool coat. While I’m sure that most of you have wool coats you’re already attached to, I particularly like wool for early winter. Down just gets too sweaty for me when the weather is above 10 degrees fahrenheit. Plus the hood keeps the snow out of your eyes!
If you’re looking for something a bit more butch or center of center, straight leg black jeans with more masculine boots and gloves are easy changes. On the other hand if you want to access your inner femme or dress the look up a bit you can swap the V-neck sweater for a mid-calf sweater dress.
Buy Me: Slouchy Hat//V-neck Sweater//Mittens//Hooded Wool Coat//Fleeced-lined leggings//Shearling-lined rain boots
Whether you’re braving the snow or just watching it fall on your computer you gotta do it in style. Keep things narrow cut and fleece lined and you definitely won’t be sorry– or cold!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Confusing the World and Confronting Yourself in Butch Leggings
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
This week Autostraddle writer, teacher, inspirational spoken word artist and all-around pretty neat human Gabby wrote just about the best article ever about stepping out on the street and out of her comfort zone in leggings. So maybe this is your week to do the same. Of course, there’s no reason not to do so with a little style. Oh look at that! Gabby has graciously showed us just the style to do it in.
Gabby’s look is a great option for anyone who wants to start wearing leggings, particularly for masculine of center folks. The boxy, masculine nature of the over shirt keeps the look more butch, while the Bklyn Boihood shirt makes clear to anyone in the know that you’re down for the get down. Plus, even though they’re currently trending for everyone, military boots are always a nice way to butch it up a bit.
That being said, Gabby’s look is also a great option for someone center of center or femme who just hasn’t been comfortable wearing leggings in pubic before. I know I was nervous for a long time to wear leggings with anything besides a skirt. Fortunately, the triple layered, slightly longer shirts provide a lot of coverage if you’re nervous about showing off your butt.
The real key to this outfit it the hat. A slouchy grey or black hat pairs well with a cozy flannel shirt and makes the entire outfit more laid back. You might find it more relaxing to try something new, like leggings, if your overall look is more casual. It lets you try something out without feeling like it needs to be a statement on your identity or longterm clothing preferences.
If leggings are completely off the table, this look also works well with black jeggings or even a pair of cute skinny corduroys. You could even go for a pair of slim black pants. Just keep in mind that you want to keep the bottom half of the outfit more narrow to play up the more boxy top.
Scotch and Soda Flannel Gingham Shirt//Bklyn Boihood T-Shirt//Hanes Classic White Tees//Guess Cayote Lace Up Boots//Stretch Cotton Full Length Long Leggings//Loser Machine Hat
Wherever your leggings journey takes you, butch or otherwise, be sure to enjoy it! Very few things in life come as simultaneously cheap, comfortable and stylish.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Throwback Party with Childhood Friends
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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If you’ve gone home for Thanksgiving then there’s a real good chance you’ve already been invited to a big raging party this weekend (or even tonight) with all the kids you went to high school with. Probably your best friends will be there and you’re bound to have an awesome and possibly hazy night filled with a couple of laughs and couple beers and preferably a designated driver. Your real friends don’t care what you wear, but who knows who else you might see! Maybe the first girl you kissed or the boy you awkwardly went to prom with before both of you came out a week later. Regardless, you’re going to need to look sharp, so let’s find you this week’s best new look.
Kicking back with friends from high school isn’t the time to look too stuffy, but certainly you want to look put together. I’ve long been a supporter of blazers for just about any time you want to bring an outfit together. I particularly like this cocoa colored corduroy one for a casual fall party. The color contrasts perfectly with a pair of light wash straight leg jeans, but the fabric keeps the overall look soft and casual. Any light colored blazer in a corduroy or velvet will work in a similar way, particularly if you jazz it up with a funky button and a contrasting handkerchief or pocket square.
I can’t get enough of polka dots and while the trend might be running its last mile this year, it’s not too late to hop aboard right now! To keep polka dots appropriate for autumn, opt for a white or colored polka dot on a darker colored fabric. Dark blue is a good option, but steer clear of chambray for this particular look — even the darkest denim might look a bit cowboy when paired with washed-out jeans.
If you’re looking for something a bit femmier, I would swap the jeans and oxford for a navy colored dress, but keep the blazer so you don’t freeze! Alternatively you can simply go for a more narrow blazer and more femme jeans.
Finish off your look for your hometown night out with the most important accessory: a watch! That way you can Suddenly Realize You’re Late For Something Important if you run into that lab partner turned ex-girlfriend. I hope she’s not still mad about the time you slashed her tires. Good luck with that. At least you can hide in your soft new blazer.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Thanksgivukkah
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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It’s almost the most magical holiday since The O.C. brought us Chrismukkah. It’s time for Thanksgvukkah! A brand new holiday that’s never happened before and won’t happen again until the year 79811. While I plan to look just as fabulous is 79811 as I do now, we had better focus on what to wear this year on this very special day! Fortunately, Thanksgiving and Chanukah have similar style needs with just a few tweaks.
Thanksgiving is all about autumn and food, while Chanukah is all about winter and presents… and food. Fortunately both holidays are really about family! With that in mind, a sweater and a scarf is a the perfect place to start! Nothing says “I’m still your cuddly child please bestow upon me mashed potatoes/turkey/brisket/latkes/gelt” like a nice soft sweater and scarf. Aim for a sweater in grey or another dark color in case you spill. Plus layers are perfect if you’re concerned you might get hot after a little Manischewitz wine flush and might want to layer down.
With layering down in mind, you might want to opt for a button-up underneath your sweater. That way if you get something on your sweater, and your sweater isn’t dark enough to camouflage it, you can just take your sweater off and still have a perfectly Thanksgiving appropriate top. That being said, you might want to go for a slightly more casual button-up in case you suddenly find yourself needing to kick back and watch the football game in a more casual Thanksgiving setting.
Additionally, it’s a good idea to keep your shirt and sweater untucked, since you’ll probably be consuming an inconceivable quantity of latkes with gravy. You might need to be able to unbutton without anyone knowing.
On bottom I firmly suggest dark colored jeans. While typically I opt for nicer slacks for Thanksgiving, Thanksgivukkah inevitably presents situations in which you might be sitting on the floor playing dreidel or opening presents. This is not a time to mess up your nice pants. Plus, between Thanksgiving dinner and Chanukah you’re going to be sitting for a while. Get comfortable.
The best shoes to finish off you Thanksgivukkah look are monk-strap shoes because they’re the closest thing we have to modern day pilgrim shoes! Be prepared for some shoe jokes from your family and friends, but know in your heart that you’ll be the most stylish person at the menorah lighting.
Thanksgiving and Chanukah are two amazing family holidays, and fortunately you don’t have to change your dinner sweater too much. Just make a few changes for comfort so you can fully embrace Chanukah activities and you’re going to have a flawless and filling night!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Dapper and Cuddly Movie Date
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
Seems this week every lesbian on the block is braving the cold wind to go see Blue is the Warmest Color. In fact, it’s probably just about the perfect movie to ask that cute girl with the unknown sexual orientation at the muffin shop to. She’ll know exactly what you’re putting down. Or maybe you and your longterm girlfriend just really really want to finally see Thor 2. Either way, it’s cold and time for a cozy movie date, but don’t forget to layer!
The start to any great date outfit is making it something special, without going too over the top. With a movie date you need to take things one step further and make sure you’re also comfortable and snuggle ready. You never know what might happen in a dark movie theater!
You want to start your look with a button-up and tie, to look like you’re bring your date A game, but then taper it down. With this in mind, a gingham button-up with a casual grey bow tie is a great combo. Gingham is more casual than pin-striped or solid dress shirts. Similarly, a grey flannel or chambray bow tie is much more casual than a shiny black one. Plus flannel is super cuddly– even on a bow tie. You could even bump it up a notch and go for a plaid flannel bow tie. Super snuggly.
Pairing your button up and tie with narrow or slim chinos, rather than traditional slacks will also keep your look more casual and weeknight appropriate. Plus it will be much more comfortable while sitting in a cramped seat through a two hour movie. If you’re more femme, you can opt for grey skinny jeans or even soft grey leggings.
Most importantly, you need to layer for your movie. You don’t want to shiver your way through Adèle’s climb to adulthood. Better yet, if you bring enough layers you can be the knight in shining armor when your date gets cold! While crew-neck sweaters are the classic go to paired with a button up, a half-zip pullover is a more casual approach for a change of pace.
Pants / gingham shirt / half-zip / bow tie
Go enjoy your date, and remember, the most important part is to maximize mid-movie cuddles!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Sitting Alone in Your Apartment
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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As much as I love it, thank god Halloween is finally over. How are you recovering from your candy hangover? What about your regular hangover? Is it just me or is everything falling apart this week? It’s too bright in here and everyone is talking too loudly. I need everyone to be quiet. Okay. I guess that’s better. One thing is for sure, I could not possibly leave my apartment today. I’m guessing you aren’t going to either.
Just because you’re not leaving your apartment doesn’t mean you might not still want to look amazing. I personally use staying at home as an excuse to dramatically strike a pose repeatedly in whatever I’m wearing in my full length mirror. You may or may not want to do this as well. I don’t know, it’s your journey.
This isn’t our first time talking about style for staying at home alone, but I still love this look’s fresh take on an old theme. This week’s outfit comes directly 100% without shame from the Veer NYC Fall 2013 lookbook. While I’m sure this look would be perfect for plenty of folks to bike about New York City, pausing occasionally to take inspired instagram photos, for a lot of us it’s just the perfect combination of style and loungewear.
Drop crotch pants are the perfect way to start off this look because they live right in the land between slacks and sweatpants. If I spend the whole day in sweatpants or PJ bottoms, I end up feeling sort of stale. Like I spent the whole day in bed, even if I actually spent the whole day on the couch (which is completely different for the record). Regular jeans, on the other hand, are far too restrictive for the wallowing, TV watching, magazine organizing and ramen cooking you have planned. Drop crotch pants, on the other hand, not only live in the perfect comfy middle ground, they also are stylish enough that you can pretend that maybe, just maybe, you’re going to leave the apartment at night. This goes double if they’re patterned drop crotch pants.
Any tank top works well for stay at home all day, but a muscle tee maximizes shoulder coverage and warmth without compromising the need to be completely unrestricted with both arms exposed. Similarly to a pair of patterned drop crotch pants, a black crew neck muscle shirt gives much greater an illusion that you might just venture outside. But still, it’s okay if you don’t.
Center images top and bottom show Veer NYC Muscle tee and Camo drop crotch pants as shown in feature image.
Left: Russel muscle tee / Obey camo pants
Right: Forever21 Muscle tee / Forever21 deser camo pants
Whatever your reason for shutting in for the day, there’s no reason to slump on style. You can still be as put together as ever, even if you’re falling apart. So enjoy your day in, with or without these slippers.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Last Minute Halloween Costume
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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It’s almost Halloween! Oh wait… like really almost Halloween. Like, you should have come up with a costume a week ago and now you’re wondering what the easiest best way to make a costume in 24 hours it. Something that you can wear to work as a half-assed costume but then deck out of control for your raging Halloween party at night.
Image via Americanapparel.net
I know what you’re thinking. What’s so special about that girl’s outfit? Is it even an outfit? She’s just wearing a black leotard/bodysuit thing. We can’t even see her shoes. But that’s the thing about Halloween! On Halloween a bodysuit could be anything! Anything I say! Once you put a bodysuit one and you’re 90% of the way to a costume.
Let’s say you want to go for a classic costume. Put on a witch’s hat and suddenly you’re a witch. Put on devil horns and oh my God you’re a devil. Throw some cat ears on your head and HOLY SHIT you are a cat. Add feathers and you’re a bird. Wear a bodysuit in literally any animal print and you are already that animal.
So unoriginal it’s original
Are you athletic? Put on an a-line skirt and BAM you are an ice skater. Wear a faux gold medal and an unimpressed face and you’re McKayla Maroney. Slip on a tutu and flats and you’re a ballet dancer. Put on tights and neon leg warmers and you’re an aerobics instructor. Put on a brightly colored skirt and knee-high socks and you’re a cheerleader.
What about for you media-loving witty/irreverent folks? Put on black leg warmers and grab a bucket of water and you’re Jennifer Beals in Flashdance. Do you have a hand you can put up? Congrats, you’re Beyonce in her Single Ladies video. Throw on some sunglasses and you’re Lady Gaga. Squeeze on ridiculously high-waisted skinny leggings and you’re Jessie J. Stick out your tongue and you’re Miley Cyrus.
Are you a nerd? Put on tights and little boys’ underwear you’re an adorable superhero. Put on a cape and you’re also any superhero ever. Or maybe you’re a supervillain! I don’t know! I’m not familiar with your elaborate backstory.
Superhero or your hero?
I recognize that this isn’t for everyone. I imagine a lot of MOC folks wouldn’t be too keen on wearing a bodysuit (although it still makes a great start to a masculine superhero costume). With that in mind you can go for a head-to-toe bodysuit, or simply swap your base for a fitted T-shirt and slacks. What about those of you who think skimpy Halloween costumes are part of the mainstream media’s sexist agenda to make us believe we have to be conventionally sexy to be of worth? Well then put on a bunny tail and ears and you’re the patriarchy.
Perhaps you’re the best Halloweenie amongst us and you’ve had your costume planned for months. But if not, a bodysuit is a great place for all us last-minuters to start! Plus, if you really get pressed for time you can just throw one on with a scrunchie and go as an American Apparel model.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Fall Foliage Walk
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
The leaves have finally changed and in that one perfect week when the trees are red and the air is crisp it’s time to grab your honey (or bff or dog) for a romantic fall foliage walk. Unfortunately, actually picking that perfect day might be more complicated than you imagined. It might actually still be pretty warm. Or worse, freezing cold. Hell, it might even snow! So you’d better pick a versatile outfit! This week’s look is brought to you by our very own Community Editor, Vanessa!
A perfect human
This week’s look is pretty specific to dress-wearing folks. For great center of center or masculine of center options, check out our two great looks for apple picking. Because what is a fall foliage walk but apple picking without the pretense of work or mandatory end-game pie.
Our perfect femme look for a fall foliage walk brings together elements from you summer wardrobe in such a way that they are warm enough and seasonally appropriate for fall. There’s nothing sadder than the moment you have to put your floral sleeveless dresses away for fall. Throwing a cropped tee on top of a short dress extends your summer dress’s lifespan and gives you a totally unique look that flattering for almost any body type. Crop tops have circled back into style, but it’s just as easy to make your own by cutting a tee shirt in half. I particularly like cropped shirts that are a bit looser so that it looks more casual and less Spice Girls.
Additionally, while layers keep this outfit warm enough for fall but cool enough to work up a sweat, you can add, subtract or substitute depending on the weather. If it’s cooler than you expected, swap black tights for black leggings or swap the cropped tee for a cropped sweater. If it’s warmer or you get overheated while walking, just layer down. If you really plan on sweating make sure to take along a bandana to wipe your brow.
You might think the most important element of this look is the adorable dress/shirt combo, but actually it’s Vanessa’s boots! They my absolute faves, the Steve Madden Troopa Boots! Supportive, thick-soled, heel-free boots are the key to any long walk! You can, of course, opt for more traditional hiking boots or sneakers, but you want to keep in mind your adorable walk pictures. Besides, a fall foliage walk is a stroll not a hike!
There’s still plenty of time for that wonderful blend of summer and fall fashion. This time of year weather oscillates frequently and it’s great to have layers for any outdoor adventure. Besides, if you get too cold you can always hop in your car and make it a fall foliage drive!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Boy Scout Chic
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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Are you headed up to A-Camp this week?! I am! Get ready for workshops, panels, crafts and yes, even some camping.
Normally if I were going to show you guys an outfit to wear to an event I was attending, I would use this as a moment for unabashed self promotion. But alas, I do camp all wrong. I always wear heels and high-waisted pants and then tromp around shocked when I look out of place and get all my nice clothes dusty. That being said, I should state for the record that the perfect look for camp is whatever makes your heart sing! Still, there are two individuals who put the camping back in a-camp: Autostraddle/A-Camp staffers Cee and Taylor.
Who even are these adorable rascals?!
The overall key to this A-Camp look is the vague essence of Boy Scout. With that in mind you want to either start with an old boy scout/scout leader shirt or simply a tan or green canvas shirt with two breast pockets with flaps and buttons. If you’re cold you can throw a long-sleeved thermal underneath your button-up, which is generally a good idea because weather on the mountain is crazy and can change in an instant.
If your canvas shirt doesn’t have any merit badges on it, pump up the boy scout volume with a couple of patches of your own choosing. Or make your own queer scout merit badge!
The obvious companion for a canvas top is some khaki cargo pants. I suggest going for a shade of khaki that is different than your top. Matching bottoms might push you over the edge from “essence of Boy Scout” to “Boy Scout costume.” That is not the look you’re going for (unless it is). If you’re on the femmier side of things you might want to go for some narrow cut, cropped cargo pants. Alternatively you might prefer to wear black leggings because there is literally not a thing in the world that black leggings doesn’t go with. You could also wear shorts, for a full Boy Scout effect, but I really think you’ll be cold and the Jewish mother in me is just so not okay with that.
On your feet you’ll want something sturdy but comfortable. Brown leather boat shoes or brown hiking boots are both good options. Just like when we went apple picking, center of center and femme of center might want military style boots and MOC folks might prefer more of a hiking boot. Desert shoes are also a great option for the Clarks fans out there.
Finally, you’ll want to accessorize with a bandana. Maybe even in your Rainbow War team color! Where are you going to tie that bandana? Well wherever the hell you want. Tie it around your neck or pin your hair back with it. Maybe you want to flag with it out your back pocket or stick it in your front pocket because you’re actually using that thing for snot. To full complete your look you’ll want to add in a camping headlamp, a pocket knife and something attached to a carabiner.
Bandana Set/Pocket Knife/Animal Badge Set/Grey Cargo Pants/Cotton-Twill Work Shirt/Skinny Green Cargo Pants/Clark Desert Boots/Green Twill Workshirt/Blue Thermal
Now that you have your outfit, you just have to get it all up the mountain! Happy Camping!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Apple Picking!
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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I know how you can be in the fall. You’ve been so busy getting back into the swing of things with school/work/your new cat that you just haven’t been spending as much time as you used to doing adorable things with your girlfriend. But this weekend is different. This weekend you’re taking your boo on the ultimate show of autumn love and affection. You’re going apple picking!
Your apple-picking outfit has to be perfect. You’re going to pose for enough squishy romantic photographs to make all of your Instagram friends lovesick and you need to look fresh to death in them. But it’s also a little chilly! Should you bring an extra layer just in case your girlfriend wants it? Oh the decisions!
Disclaimer: these outfits are also fully functional for going apple picking with your friends, your family or even by yourself. Autostraddle.com does not discriminate against apple-picking companion choices.
Via AllAboutStuds.tumblr.com featuring this hot girl and her hot girlfriend
Start with the ultimate autumn combination of a denim jacket and sweater or hoodie. If you’re more butch you might want to opt for a hoodie or, for a dressier look, a men’s crew-neck sweater. For a more femme look, you can go for a knit sweater and an infinity scarf. Take a tip from our model above and use this opportunity to bust out something goofy in a fun fall shade. Something ugly-pretty or totally retro. Regardless of your sweater/sweatshirt choice, make sure your layer is small enough to fit under a denim jacket. Nothing is more uncomfortable than layers bulking up in your armpits.
On bottom it’s usually best to go for pants or jeans. It might be tempting to wear a skirt, but it will cool down at night and you might get cold. Plus, you’ll want to feel free to climb a tree if the moment so moves you. Cargo pants are a particularly good option if you think you might want to tote along some apple-picking gear. Generally I would also stay away from leggings. If you fall in a puddle or the mud you want a little more of a barrier between the elements and your skin (not that speaking from apple-picking-falling experience or anything). Whatever you decide to wear on bottom, you should make sure it isn’t denim that matches your jacket. Never match your denims or you’ll look like you’re wearing the classic Canadian Tuxedo.
Finally, boots are a must. Apple picking is genuinely kind of a lot of work. Or at least a lot of walking. Plus orchards can be muddy or rocky. If you’re femme or center of center military style books are a great option and go great with skinny jeans. They look cute but they’re also supportive and functional. High heeled boots with get stuck in the grass and leave you looking overdressed. If you’re more MOC you might want to go for a masculine boot, perhaps a classic hiking boot.
This is a good opportunity to keep accessories to a minimum. After all, you wouldn’t want to lose a ring and end up spending your afternoon rooting around in the orchard for it.
Green hoodie/Maroon Dog Sweater/Cargo Pants/Denim Jacket/Black skinny jeans/hiking boots/Troopa boots
Just remember, you want your look to be charming for photos but functional and worry free! That way you can forget about the world and just focus on your girlfriend and, more importantly, all those delicious Granny Smiths!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Getting Stuff Done
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How did you let yourself get this behind on errands? I mean, I know things have been busy lately, but you have a ton of stuff to do this week! There are only so many hours in the day to get your car inspected, your renter’s insurance dropped off, your roommate’s girlfriend’s birthday gift purchased. God I hope the pharmacy is open until 11pm tonight. Pull on a functional outfit; an outfit to get shit done.
If you’re going to finally get some shit done, you better start with something comfy but not too comfy. You want to be able to walk around all day, but it helps to be able to clean your outfit up in a jiffy if you need to. Certainly you should wear some looser pants — this isn’t the time to suffer from the distractingly uncomfortable crotch of Too Tight Pants Syndrome. Still, you might find yourself finally squeezing in that meeting you’ve been putting off. So go for some straight leg khakis and a button-up. A somewhat muted but flexible button-up is a safe, comfy and practical option. You can even go for a chambray fabric. I also strongly suggest a denim jacket. Yes, even over chambray. You just never know when you’re going to need a denim jacket.
Accessories are easy here. You need no-nonsense footwear and a backpack. If big sorel boots are comfortable for you to walk around in all day, you should go for it. They have that perfect foot stomp of making things happen. If snow boots are uncomfortable or hot, you can swap them out for a lightweight work or military boot. A backpack is also a total necessity, so you won’t have to trudge back home between errands. Backpacks are hitting the trends again so it shouldn’t be hard to find one that looks more like Busy and Important Queer and less like I Forgot My Algebra Homework. I particularly like the canvas and denim backpacks for their ability to transcend different styles and easily dress up or dress down.
If you’re looking for something a bit femmier to get things done in, you can swap men’s khakis for skinny cropped cargo pants and a slimmer foot boot. You can even swap the button-up for a black or blue tank top if it’s more comfortable. Remember though, that this isn’t the time for heels. You don’t want to be rushing home mid-errands to change into comfier shoes.
Levi Denim Jacket/J.Crew Slim Secret Wash in Blue Stripe/Sorel Boots/Everlane snap backpack/Old Navy Slim Fit Khakis
Today is the day to start fresh and get things done. So throw your wallet in your pocket, stuff your backpack full of all the goodies you need and go get it done.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: A Wicked Important Meeting
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This week you’ve got that big meeting. You know the one I’m talking about! That wicked important meeting that could make or break your career. Maybe it’s a job interview or a grad school interview or maybe your boss’s boss’s boss’s boss finally agreed to hear you explain why the soap in the office kitchens just has to change. I can’t tell you what or where your big meeting is about, but you’ve gotta look serious and extra no-nonsense this time.
It can be really frustrating when an event seems to call for a suit and you just don’t have a good one put together. Suit jackets can cost as much as the vest and pants combined and tend to take more vigorous (and expensive) tailoring. Wearing a vest and pants is a great way to opt out of wearing a full suit while still looking professional as hell. I particularly like a navy pinstriped suit with a brown shirt for a work function in the fall because it has a less formal feel than a black vest and pants with a white shirt. You don’t want anyone to think you’re somebody’s lost groomsman. Keep in mind that you still might need to get your pants and vest tailored, and should therefore buy them to fit the largest part of your body.
Accessories should be kept pretty muted for your big meeting; you wouldn’t want to lose out just because someone else thinks you’re too flashy. That being said, red polo socks, or even argyle, are a great compromise. They’re power socks. They’re a flash of color and a bit of fun without going over the top. Similarly your shoes and watch should have just a hint of extra style. I especially like an oxford with an unusual sole and a watch that is one part formal, one part sporty. Top it all off with a nice big pair of serious nerd glasses. Persols are the classic, but Warby Parker has great options for less. I got my Wicked Important Meeting glasses from Penguin.
If you’re more femme, or even more center of center, the best way to alter this look is through the fit of the vest and pants. Go for pants that are slightly more fitting and a vest that curves in at the waist. Additionally you can ditch the socks for stocking and easily swap the black oxford-style sneakers for a pair of chunky menswear-inspired heels. If heels aren’t your game you can make this look more tomboy femme with some smaller, more slender oxfords.
Charles Tyrwhitt Navy twill vest / Neiman Marcus Check Dress Shirt / Navy twill double breasted slim fit suit pants / Polo Allover Pony Socks /Cole Haan ‘Great Jones’ Wingtips / Accutime Leather Strap Watch / Eyebobs Benchmark Readers
So (almost) suit up and put your vest-pants combo to good use. Go get that job/PhD/kitchen soap you’ve been wanting. With those cute glasses who could tell you no? Besides, you deserve it.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Autumn Hard Femme Dyke Night
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The leaves are just barely starting to change, and though it’s 80 degrees during the day, it’s starting to get chilly at night. Your friends are all going to the local dyke bar’s “Back to School” night and this seems like a good time to put on your Saturday night best and flirt with some cuties. Plus you already know all the rules of how to have fun at a girl bar. But what to wear? Something femme but not too girly, that will still let the grrls and bois know you’re into them. Fortunately, I have just the look for a hard femme like you, and it’s all about (faux) leather shorts.
Leather shorts have been on my radar for some time, but have blown into full force for me now that I’ve seen Taylor Swift wear some with Tegan and Sara. Now leather shorts can be part of your go-to dyke night outfit this fall! Leather shorts, or even leather-coated denim shorts, are amazing because you can easily dress them up or down. The leather keeps them fancy but, you know, they’re still shorts. Now that it’s getting cooler at night, wearing them with a pair of fun patterned tights keeps you warm while giving them even more edge. If your leather shorts are high-waisted, go ahead and pair them with a fitted crop top in a fall color like black or eggplant. Everyone has been going all Jessie J for cropped tees, probably because they easily solve the problem of bunching tucked-in fabric.
Accessorize lightly, because there’s nothing worse than losing your favorite bracelet while dancing. A long necklace brings balance to the look, and it’s fun to choose a charm that’s funky and original. You’ll want to finish your look off with a pair of military boots. This is how you make sure the ladies know you’re into them. The steampunk goggles/sunglasses are probably optional after 9pm.
If you want to change this look up and make it more butch, you can swap the leather shorts for leather pants or even black jeans and go for a fitted but full-length T-shirt. You can also opt for slightly more masculine boots. On the other hand, if you want something a little femmier, you can swap out the leather shorts for an A-line leather skirt (like I did at the Marimacho Runway Show).
There’s not much else to say here, I mean, you’re wearing black leather shorts and some sexy stockings. Go get ’em, Tiger.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Back to School
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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Every year the first day of classes sideswipes students across the country. You’ve just settled into your summer neons and flip flops and all of a sudden it’s time to bust out your blazers. Amongst the stress of new pens and expensive textbooks is the age old question of what to wear. The first day of school is your time to make a splash with your friends while making a good impression on professors.
The first day of classes is usually hot as hell. You might be tempted to wear your new blazer or one of your favorite sweaters, but come noontime you’re going to be sweating in all the wrong places. Instead, go for a short sleeved button-up in a late summer/early fall color. I always think red is a good option for this time of year. Remember, however, to go for a short sleeve button-up that is fitted through the shoulders and around your arm, otherwise you’ll end up looking like your dad on vacation. If you want to really bump up the style on your top, cuff the sleeves a few times, button your shirt up to your neck, and tuck it in.
You want to pair your top with jeans and shoes that are relaxed, but not falling apart. Mid-rise straight leg jeans in a light wash have a summery feel, but are more appropriate for class than shorts. If you have a pair of fall boots you just can’t wait to wear, there’s no reason not to debut them on the first day of class. Just be sure to wear lightweight socks and cuff your pants to keep from overheating. Finish this off with a no-nonsense messenger bag and a “just in case” jacket and you’re good to go!
If you’re on the femmier side of things, you can switch up straight leg jeans for cropped skinny jeans or even a denim skirt. You could also dress up the collar a bit with a fun statement necklace. On the other hand, if you want something a bit more masculine, you can either go for wider-leg pants worn lower on the hips and/or wear your pant legs over your boots. Alternatively you can dress up this look with a fun bow tie or knit tie.
Whether you’re enthusiastically bounding off to school or reluctantly dragging your ass to class, the first day back is a great opportunity to make a fashion statement. By keeping your look simple, clean and a little fun there’s no way you can get it wrong!
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Labor Day Party
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it — we’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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Somewhere smack dab between “I can’t believe the summer’s ending” and “I guess it’s time to buy some sweaters” is that wonderful long Labor Day Weekend. Sure classes are starting up again next week and work is about to be a mess, but for this one weekend you’re going to pretend summer lasts forever and enjoy some socially responsible day drinking. But what to wear?! Will it be cold or hot or buggy? How formal is a Labor Day party anyways?! Don’t worry, I have you covered with this adorable and practical Labor Day Weekend party outfit!
Via Fitforafemme.com
Labor Day parties tend to be outdoor day-to-night affairs, so your look is all about breezy comfort in summer styles, without too much chill when the sun goes down. A long-sleeved button-up with the sleeves rolled up is just perfect for the warm day and cooler night. Grab one with polka dots for a fun casual print that won’t look like you’re headed to the office. Go ahead and pair your button-up with a pair of white lace shorts. They’re girly and fun and, if you live somewhere where fall is on the horizon, this might be your last chance to wear them.
Accessories really change the dynamics of this look. You don’t want to overdo it on the jewelry, but a fun costume necklace and a slightly masculine bracelet dress your look up without overdoing it. To complete this tomboy femme look, and counterbalance the girly lace shorts, add a more masculine belt and some matching oxfords. You probably don’t want to be out in the grass in heels anyways. Feel free, however, to skip your socks and wear your oxfords like slip ons. This will bring your look together and keep your oxfords from looking too business casual.
If you’re more on the MOC side of things, consider a swapping the lace shorts for white mens slim fit shorts. Additionally, you can opt for a more straight-cut button-up and switch the necklace out for a striped knit tie. On the other hand, to make this look even femmier, go for a pop of color in your belt and oxfords in a shiny patent leather.
Party or no party, Labor Day is your last big summer moment. So no matter what you have going on this Monday, when you show up in your Labor Day Party outfit you’re sure to end the summer — and kick off the fall — in flawless style.
A special thanks to Fit for a Femme whose photographs originally appeared on her website.
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Queer Outfit of the Week: Summer Day Date
Welcome to Queer Outfit of the Week where I scour the world and tell you all about my one favorite queer outfit this week. I’ll envision a scenario where you or your girlfriend or your best friend or your mom or your cat could wear it and talk all about why it’s a great outfit for that event. Every week will be a different style, gender presentation and event so there’s a little something for everyone — even the person who just wants to look at pictures of stylish queers! So let’s get to it! We’re going to figure out what the heck we’re going to wear this week!
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It’s 100,000 degrees outside, summer’s not yet over and you’ve just met the girl of your dreams. She’s a barista in that place downtown where you get Arnold Palmers and she just agreed to go out with you on a day date! So what are you going to wear?! You’re going to wear your go-to summer date outfit!
Your Summer Day Date Look
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A short-sleeve button-up with a bow tie and floral shorts are just perfect for a date when it’s blazing hot out. The short sleeves and short pants keep you cool while the floral bow tie lets your date know that today is something special. It’s the summer so don’t be scared to mix crazy, brightly colored patterns. As long as you stick with no more than three colors you should keep your look from getting too crazy. If you’re MOC and have the common problem finding men’s shirt with sleeves that are too long, you can totally cuff your short sleeves, it looks adorable and retro.
Accessorize lightly; you don’t want her to think you’re trying too too hard. Stick with a watch and your favorite sunglasses. For a cleaner look you can wear a pair of light colored desert boots, but if it’s really hot don’t be scared to wear sandals. Still, go for your nicer Rainbows and shy away from flip-flops that look like shower shoes.
So go forth on your awesome date! You’re gonna look put together, laid back and extra special for that extra special lady!
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