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  • the feature image for untethered shows a group of people gathered for a funeral, as well as a collaged image of a horse and of a fly
    first person

    Untethered: Visiting Other Peoples’
    Families and Unhinged Horse Lesbians

    Nico
    May 16, 2024
  • Is Monogamy cool again? Three black and white images of a queer couple embracing against a lime green backdrop that says Hot Hot Hot
    relationships

    Is Monogamy
    Cool Again?

    Gabe Dunn
    Apr 17, 2024
  • a photo of three people of varying skintones spooning each other in a row. then, there is a tear through the image, diagonally and right down the center
    AF Advice Box

    Did My Partner Trick Me
    Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?

    the team
    Mar 8, 2024
  • Couple to Throuple Ash Maximo: a leafy tropical background with a tinted pink photo of Ash, Maximo, and writer Gabe Dunn.
    tv feature

    The Polyamorous Devils of “Couple to Throuple”
    Are Ready to Blow Up Gender Norms

    Gabe Dunn
    Mar 7, 2024
  • the feature image for untethered shows a group of people gathered for a funeral, as well as a collaged image of a horse and of a fly
    first person

    Untethered: Visiting Other Peoples’
    Families and Unhinged Horse Lesbians

    Nico
    May 16, 2024
  • Is Monogamy cool again? Three black and white images of a queer couple embracing against a lime green backdrop that says Hot Hot Hot
    relationships

    Is Monogamy
    Cool Again?

    Gabe Dunn
    Apr 17, 2024
  • a photo of three people of varying skintones spooning each other in a row. then, there is a tear through the image, diagonally and right down the center
    AF Advice Box

    Did My Partner Trick Me
    Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?

    the team
    Mar 8, 2024
  • Couple to Throuple Ash Maximo: a leafy tropical background with a tinted pink photo of Ash, Maximo, and writer Gabe Dunn.
    tv feature

    The Polyamorous Devils of “Couple to Throuple”
    Are Ready to Blow Up Gender Norms

    Gabe Dunn
    Mar 7, 2024
death is sad
polyamory
the feature image for untethered shows a group of people gathered for a funeral, as well as a collaged image of a horse and of a fly
first person

Untethered: Visiting Other Peoples’ Families and Unhinged Horse Lesbians

She grabbed my hand and smashed a tomato with her homemade caesar dressing into my palm.
Nico —
May 16, 2024
polyamory
Is Monogamy cool again? Three black and white images of a queer couple embracing against a lime green backdrop that says Hot Hot Hot
relationships

Is Monogamy Cool Again?

Is the era of polyamory over? Are more queer people returning to monogamy? Or is it just a shift in the cultural conversation?
Gabe Dunn —
Apr 17, 2024
#affiliatemarketing
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a photo of three people of varying skintones spooning each other in a row. then, there is a tear through the image, diagonally and right down the center
af+

Did My Partner Trick Me Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?

In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a…
the team —
Mar 8, 2024
couple to throuple
interview
Couple to Throuple Ash Maximo: a leafy tropical background with a tinted pink photo of Ash, Maximo, and writer Gabe Dunn.
tv feature

The Polyamorous Devils of “Couple to Throuple” Are Ready to Blow Up Gender Norms

Peacock’s polyamorous dating show Couple to Throuple got two things right: Ash and Maximo.
Gabe Dunn —
Mar 7, 2024
couple to throuple
peacock
Maximo and Ash during the ceremony
tv show recaps

“Couple to Throuple” Never Understood Polyamory

How did a show about the ability to share connections with anyone in the world become about locking someone down??
Gabe Dunn —
Feb 29, 2024
into the af+ advice box
polyamory
a collage featuring two people looking at each other, a glass of wine between them against a sort of sunset-esque orange background
af+

I Confronted My Girlfriend About Cheating On Me, She Responded By Coming Out as Poly

Is this ever an okay way for a poly relationship to begin?
the team —
Feb 23, 2024
couple to throuple
peacock
Couple to Throuple 107-109: Brittane and Darien kiss lying down in bed
tv show recaps

“Couple to Throuple” Continues With Relationship Musical Chairs and More Queer Make Outs

One couple wants to be open while their partner wants to be throuple-monogamous. One third wants the freedom to date others, while their couple would feel betrayed. And one couple’s…
Gabe Dunn —
Feb 22, 2024
polyamory
you need help
polaroid of three women drinking together
dating

You Need Help: I Want To Ask My Couple Friends Out but Don’t Know if They’re Poly

“I have a crush on a lesbian couple I know, and I want to test the waters to see if they might be interested in dating, but I don’t want…
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —
Feb 20, 2024
couple to throuple
peacock
Couple to Throuple 104-106 feature; Maximo and Ash in the confessional
tv show recaps

Bless the “Couple to Throuple” Gods — A Hot Nonbinary Couple Has Arrived

My heart is racing. I am opening Feeld as I type this. SZA was right.
Gabe Dunn —
Feb 15, 2024
bisexuality
kink
a unicorn figurine ith three roses on its main stands out against a dark background with 1970s style stripes in red, orange, yellow, teal and dark blue waving across it
love + sex

I Unicorned for a Couple at a Quirky Rural Swingers Club

I wasn’t going to turn down the chance to explore a massive swinger lodge that’s been in operation since the 1970’s.
Nico —
Feb 11, 2024
couple to throuple
polyamory
Peacock’s New Polyamorous Reality Show “Couple to Throuple” Forgets That Thirds Are People Too
tv show recaps

Peacock’s New Polyamorous Reality Show “Couple to Throuple” Forgets That Thirds Are People Too

Couple to Throuple wants the couples to find their forever third. But the couples are still trying to decide what they want for themselves.
Gabe Dunn —
Feb 8, 2024
polyamory
A close up of a blurry woman's face in ecstasy
movie reviews

“Stroking an Animal” Is a Sensuous Portrait of Polyamory

Stroking an Animal is an arthouse movie that reflects the messiness of real queer lives.
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Jan 9, 2024
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