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    holigays

    What Brought You
    Joy This Year?

    the team
    Dec 30, 2022
  • a collage on lined paper including converse sneakers, a sleeping bag, two hands linked by their pinkies, and the purple text that reads Open Thread
    community

    It’s a Friday Open
    Thread, but on a Thursday!

    Vanessa
    Mar 17, 2022
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    community

    Grounding Ourselves for 2021: A
    NYE Round Table & Open Thread

    Vanessa
    Dec 31, 2020
  • cute dog in a red santa hat covering his eyes
    community

    Tale As Old As Time:
    Here Is Your Christmakwanzakah Open Thread!

    Vanessa
    Dec 24, 2020
  • a Black woman wearing a red sweater smiles a huge joyful smile
    holigays

    What Brought You
    Joy This Year?

    the team
    Dec 30, 2022
  • a collage on lined paper including converse sneakers, a sleeping bag, two hands linked by their pinkies, and the purple text that reads Open Thread
    community

    It’s a Friday Open
    Thread, but on a Thursday!

    Vanessa
    Mar 17, 2022
  • very blurry photo of trees from afar, resulting in soft green lighting
    community

    Grounding Ourselves for 2021: A
    NYE Round Table & Open Thread

    Vanessa
    Dec 31, 2020
  • cute dog in a red santa hat covering his eyes
    community

    Tale As Old As Time:
    Here Is Your Christmakwanzakah Open Thread!

    Vanessa
    Dec 24, 2020
holigay open thread
new year's eve
a Black woman wearing a red sweater smiles a huge joyful smile
holigays

What Brought You Joy This Year?

This is a New Year’s Eve Roundtable and Open Thread Situation!
the team —
Dec 30, 2022
open thread
a collage on lined paper including converse sneakers, a sleeping bag, two hands linked by their pinkies, and the purple text that reads Open Thread
community

It’s a Friday Open Thread, but on a Thursday!

Today, in honor of our 13th birthday this month (!) and the extraordinary fundraiser Nicole is leading to keep us going (hopefully for 13 more years and then some!) we…
Vanessa —
Mar 17, 2022
holigay open thread
new year's eve
very blurry photo of trees from afar, resulting in soft green lighting
community

Grounding Ourselves for 2021: A NYE Round Table & Open Thread

In a chaotic world, how will you show up for yourself and provide yourself with the consistency you need in the new year and beyond?
Vanessa —
Dec 31, 2020
hanukkah
holigay open thread
cute dog in a red santa hat covering his eyes
community

Tale As Old As Time: Here Is Your Christmakwanzakah Open Thread!

I hope that however you decide to spend today you can grant yourself some grace and kindness — and that you pop in to hang out with us for a…
Vanessa —
Dec 24, 2020
holigay open thread
open thread
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community

OPEN THREAD: What Are You Doing Today, Are You Okay?

Let’s be here together, apart — the safest way to show community care this year.
Vanessa —
Nov 26, 2020
2020 election
open thread
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news

US Election 2020 Open Thread: Hoo Boy, Here We Go!

Not sure what to do with your tired brain and nervous energy? We’re here to provide a communal space to feel less alone and to help process a bit among…
Rachel —
Nov 3, 2020
open thread
the speakeasy
What’s Stuck In Your Mind: An Open Thread for BIPOC Folks
community

What’s Stuck In Your Mind: An Open Thread for BIPOC Folks

What is the flavor of your grief? What has given you a boost, made your day, rubbed you all the wrong ways or is making you ask new questions? Black,…
Kamala Puligandla —
Jun 5, 2020
open thread
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straddleverse

What Are You Doing

Tell me.
Laneia —
Apr 15, 2020
open thread
Ask Us Anything: What To Watch While Social Distancing, From Noted Queer Experts
tv feature

Ask Us Anything: What To Watch While Social Distancing, From Noted Queer Experts

Get some personalized recs from the Autostraddle TV Team! Right now! Just for you! LIVE! Because we love you!
The TV Team —
Mar 19, 2020
covid-19
open thread
Ask Us Anything About Cooking While Social Distancing
food and drink

Ask Us Anything About Cooking While Social Distancing

Need help figuring out what to prioritize buying at the grocery store? Want to know what to make with what you already have? Get in here!! We’re answering all your…
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —
Mar 17, 2020
holigay open thread
new year's eve
We’re Ready For Ya, 2020: A NYE Round Table & Open Thread
holigays

We’re Ready For Ya, 2020: A NYE Round Table & Open Thread

Let 2020 be the year we figure out what we actually need, and let’s scheme and dream about how we’re gonna achieve it.
Vanessa —
Dec 31, 2019
holigay open thread
open thread
OPEN THREAD: Listen I Just Like The Word Christmakwanzakah Okay?
holigays

OPEN THREAD: Listen I Just Like The Word Christmakwanzakah Okay?

You will have a better time hanging out in this Autostraddle open thread than you will hanging out on Twitter today, I promise. It’s science!
Vanessa —
Dec 24, 2019
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