Miniseries

baby-making

fatness

queer pregnancy

Countdown to Baby T. Rex: Loving My Fat Mama Self and Itchy All Over (33 Weeks)

Extreme itchy scratchies, body-positive parenting, fat pregnant femme feelings, nesting, dill pickles, Korean pancakes and more as I fly past the eight-month mark.

KaeLyn —

Jul 4, 2016

bdsm

bottoms up

love + sex

Bottoms Up: Why I’m A Bratty Bossy Bitch

Submitting is a weird dichotomy of knowing exactly what you want but putting someone else in control of giving it to you.

Ari —

Jun 28, 2016

bdsm

kink

love + sex

View From The Top: Polka Dots, Packing, and Protocol

We started to turn the top/bottom dynamics in our sex life into 24/7 dominance/submission. It was highly negotiated, mutually consensual, and extremely hot.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Jun 21, 2016

baby-making

family

queer pregnancy

Countdown to Baby T. Rex: Crying Over My Multigrain Waffles and Whimsical Onesies (31 Weeks)

I started the 31st week of my pregnancy crying over the kitchen sink as I crammed my gestational diabetes breakfast into my mouth. It wasn’t the pregnancy hormones this time.…

KaeLyn —

Jun 20, 2016

bdsm

bottoms up

love + sex

Bottoms Up: My Time In The Dungeon

“I was on my ninth cigarette when the dom about to give me the most affirming experience I’d had as a sub came to stand next to me.”

Ari —

Jun 14, 2016

bdsm

kink

love + sex

View From The Top: Daddy

I wanted to hear her say it again. I wanted her to say it while we fucked, while I was inside her, while she kissed me, while she came. It…

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Jun 7, 2016

baby-making

family

queer pregnancy

Countdown to Baby T. Rex: Pregnant Adoptee Feelings and Dino Decal Decisions (29 Weeks)

Being an adoptee has made being pregnant all that much more strange and interesting.

KaeLyn —

Jun 6, 2016

community

Miniseries

community

Straddler Nation: Building Safe(r) Spaces for Queers IRL

How do real-life communities based off of online ones maintain safe and inclusive spaces? Let’s talk about it!

Carmen —

May 31, 2016

bdsm

kink

love + sex

View From The Top: Theory Is Foreplay, Right?

I wanted her. I dreamed about her, daydreamed about her, wrote love notes to her all day long, wrote erotica about our sex life. We weren’t together all that long,…

Sinclair Sexsmith —

May 24, 2016

baby-making

gay families

queer pregnancy

Countdown to Baby T. Rex: Sipping My Way Into the Third Trimester (27 Weeks)

“Sometimes I turn to Waffle and randomly exclaim, ‘This is happening!’ I should probably stop doing that as we get closer to, like, the possibility of me going into actual…

KaeLyn —

May 23, 2016

bdsm

bottoms up

love + sex

Bottoms Up: BDSM and Abuse

It was summer and I was lonely and she was kinky and the sex was good and I live in a small town. And she was perfect, but she wasn’t.

Ari —

May 17, 2016

bdsm

Miniseries

lesbian sex

View From The Top: Canes Are Sticks!

I had always put boundaries on my sadism — until I started seeing impact toys everywhere.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

May 10, 2016