may december lesbian relationship

af+ sex diary

may december lesbian relationship

af+

The Anti-Uhaul Couple With a 22-Year Age Gap Who Used to F*ck in Cars

Don’t get me wrong — AJ and Natasha would still f*ck in a roomy SUV if absolutely necessary.

Sex/Life —

Apr 15, 2025

into the af+ advice box

may december lesbian relationship

af+

Can I Lie To My Mom About My Girlfriend’s Age?

Is it weird to lie about your girlfriend’s age? And then sidebar: how do we all feel about straight people having ‘girlfriends’?

the team —

Aug 30, 2024

may december lesbian relationship

dating

4 Questions To Ask Yourself When Entering an Age Gap Relationship

People in age gap relationships often have to defend our relationships. But there are some questions we should ask heading into one.

Summer Tao —

Jun 7, 2024

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene

carol

movie features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: “Carol” Finds the Kink in Age Gaps

“I still love the Carol sex scene even if I’ve never been turned on by it per se.”

Drew Burnett Gregory —

Dec 23, 2023

#affiliatemarketing

literary fiction

lgbt book reviews

“Big Swiss” Review: On the Queer Age Gap Novel Set in a House Full of Bees

Big Swiss veers from horny to humorous to macabre in zigs and zags.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Feb 21, 2023

#affiliatemarketing

interview

book features

Author Meryl Wilsner on Writing MILFs, Age Gaps, and Twisting Tropes

“We never learned to write books, we only learn how to write the book that we’re writing.”

Christina Tucker —

Oct 11, 2022

#affiliatemarketing

literary fiction

lgbt book reviews

“We Do What We Do In the Dark” Is More Than a Lesbian Age Gap Romance

When we’re young, we relate to older people who are themselves young. We read maturity where it is not deserved.

Drew Burnett Gregory —

May 3, 2022

kristen arnett

may december lesbian relationship

af+

Things I’ve Never Asked My Girlfriend of Three Years About Age Gaps, Topping, and Our First Date

In part two of their intimate interview, Autostraddle Managing Editor Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya asks her girlfriend Kristen Arnett to define being a top and what she remembers about their first…

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Mar 29, 2022

may december lesbian relationship

you need help

dating

You Need Help: What Does My Crush on Someone Older Than Me Mean?

“I have recently grown attracted to someone who is older than me. Not too much older, but enough to make me question where I’m coming from.”

Christina Tesoro —

May 2, 2019

gender identity

how to live with kids

parenting & family

Y’All Need Help #20: First Admit That You Don’t Know Yet

What should you do about a baby’s pronouns, how do you and your girlfriend both propose to each other, and how do you stop holding a candle for an idealized…

Laneia —

Feb 10, 2018

into the af+ advice box

may december lesbian relationship

af+

Into The A+ Advice Box: Cyber-Love, Reefer Madness and Minding The Age Gap

We get a lot of advice questions in the A+ box, which then turn up in “Some Answers To Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us” — but we’re changing it…

Riese —

Mar 13, 2017

Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Lesbrarian

Lists/Top 10s

literature

8 Books Featuring Lesbian May/December Romance To Curl Up With Tonight

Did you love Susan Choi’s My Education, about a sexy student/professor love affair? Here are eight more books you won’t want to miss.

Casey —

Sep 26, 2016