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I Had an Affair With My College Dean

We told ourselves she was teaching me how to love myself, how to act on my desires. This is what love looks like, we said, and I became adept at…

Olivia Swanson Haas —

Jul 10, 2024

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You Need Help: What Does My Crush on Someone Older Than Me Mean?

“I have recently grown attracted to someone who is older than me. Not too much older, but enough to make me question where I’m coming from.”

Christina Tesoro —

May 2, 2019

gender identity

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parenting & family

Y’All Need Help #20: First Admit That You Don’t Know Yet

What should you do about a baby’s pronouns, how do you and your girlfriend both propose to each other, and how do you stop holding a candle for an idealized…

Laneia —

Feb 10, 2018

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8 Books Featuring Lesbian May/December Romance To Curl Up With Tonight

Did you love Susan Choi’s My Education, about a sexy student/professor love affair? Here are eight more books you won’t want to miss.

Casey —

Sep 26, 2016

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Pop Culture Fix: May-December Lesbian Couples Coming To A Theater Near You and Other Stories

Three upcoming films show May/December lesbian relationships, Lady Gaga and Angela Bassett play ex-lovers in American Horror Story: Hotel, some Duke students are freaking out about reading “Fun Home” and…

Riese —

Aug 26, 2015

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11 Lesbian Couples Who Don’t Mind The (Age) Gap

These female celebrity couples have a ten or more year age gap between them and they are happy as clams!

Riese —

Feb 16, 2015

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Mind The (Age) Gap: How to Do a May/December Lesbian Relationship

May-December (or even May-October) romances can present occasional challenges, they can also be awesome.

Butch Wonders —

Feb 8, 2012