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‘I Feel Incredibly Bad and Guilty After Masturbating’

Feeling bad about masturbation is a remarkably normal thing, especially for people who were immersed (drowned) in shame from the beginning.

Summer Tao

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Aug 5, 2025

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How To Reframe Masturbation As ‘Solo Sex’

Like all sex acts, masturbation isn’t just about sex.

Summer Tao

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Jul 31, 2024

Against a teal background, half of a grapefruit is in the bottom right corner of the image. A hot pink wand vibrator extends from the upper right corner and rests against the grapefruit.

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How to Masturbate When You’re Sexually Repressed

Here’s how to masturbate when shame is getting in your way.

Tara T

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May 22, 2023

A white person dressed as a nun sits on a floral print couch in a dark room with purple lighting. They're reading a blue book called "Anal Sex Basics." The back of the book reads, "No if's, and's, or but's about it, this is the only book you need for your journey to anal pleasure."

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Meet the Proud Pervs Behind Bedroom Besties, a New Gender-Inclusive Sex Toy Company

Bedroom Besties saw a gap in sex toy marketing. “We realized we could fill that hole — pun fully intended.”

Ro White

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May 15, 2023

The background is black. On the far right, there is the chin and upper toro of a Black woman wearing a short-sleeved, white collared shirt. She clasps her hands in prayer.

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I Still Pray After I Masturbate

Erasing decades of religious trauma doesn’t happen overnight.

Guest

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May 15, 2023

Against a blue sky filled with fluffy clouds, there is a green street sign with white text that reads, "Menopause: next exit." A white arrow points to the right.

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Old Gal, New Tricks: Queer Menopause and Masturbation

This is what we don’t talk about when we (don’t) talk about menopause…and masturbation.

Jenni

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May 8, 2023

In the bottom right corner of the image, there is a black line drawing of two women with 1950s hairstyles whispering to each other against a lavender background. In the upper left corner, there is a speech bubble. Inside the speech bubble, there is an image of the Eroscillator Top Deluxe Vibrator, which has a long, ribbed, purple and silver handle, a slim "neck," and a rounded, purple tip.

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The Eroscillator Top Deluxe Vibrator Is the MILF of the Sex Toy World

I expected to be blown away by the Eroscillator Top Deluxe Vibrator — and I was.

Guest

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Apr 6, 2023

A white woman with red hair lies on her back on a bed with blue sheets. She's wearing a pink tank top, grey sweatpants with white stars, orange leopard print socks, and a white bandana tied around her head. She touches her chin, smiles, and looks at two sex toys on the bed to her right: a black "rabbit" vibrator and a pink dildo.

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How to Shop for Accessible Sex Toys When You Live With Chronic Pain

Living with chronic pain has taught me how to help myself and others achieve pleasure using accessible sex toys.

Carly S.

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Jan 12, 2023

A Black woman with curly hair peeks out from under the covers of a bed with white pillows and white sheets. We can only see her eyes, but she seems to be smiling.

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I’m Asexual and I Prefer to Have Sex With Myself

I finally realized that it is completely possible to be asexual, experience some sexual attraction and enjoy sex — even if you’re only having sex with yourself.

Latonya

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Sep 5, 2022

A white, curvy person is lying in bed on beige sheets. Only their toros and thighs are visible. They're wearing a cream-colored crocheted top and cream-colored underwear. Their hands rest on their abdomen. They wear a silver ring on the middle finger of their right hand.

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How Masturbation Helped Me Accept Myself as an Intersex Lesbian

I finally understood that the “normal” I was seeking was mythical and that my body was beautiful and precious the way it was.

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May 16, 2022

Against an orange background, there is a peach with a slit cut down its center, causing the fruit to resemble a vulva.

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Building My Own Masturbation Rituals as a Pleasure Educator

There’s nothing quite as powerful as being in charge of your own pleasure.

Carly S.

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May 9, 2022

A Black woman with a reddish-brown afro wears gold hoop earrings and an orange T-shirt. She stands in front of an orange background and holds a black butt plug in one hand and a black rabbit vibrator in the other.

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10 Ways to Celebrate Masturbation May

Give yourself a hand — it’s International Masturbation Month!

Ro White

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May 3, 2022

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‘I Feel Incredibly Bad and Guilty After Masturbating’

How To Reframe Masturbation As ‘Solo Sex’

How to Masturbate When You’re Sexually Repressed

Meet the Proud Pervs Behind Bedroom Besties, a New Gender-Inclusive Sex Toy Company

I Still Pray After I Masturbate

Old Gal, New Tricks: Queer Menopause and Masturbation

The Eroscillator Top Deluxe Vibrator Is the MILF of the Sex Toy World

How to Shop for Accessible Sex Toys When You Live With Chronic Pain

I’m Asexual and I Prefer to Have Sex With Myself

How Masturbation Helped Me Accept Myself as an Intersex Lesbian

Building My Own Masturbation Rituals as a Pleasure Educator

10 Ways to Celebrate Masturbation May

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