Lists/Top 10s Archives

Lists/Top 10s

quarantine

One thin white woman hugs another thin white woman from behind while both grin with their eyes closed, besotted, and clutch each others' hands in a well-lit and attractively decorated apartment.

comedy

9 Upcoming Quarantine-Centric Romantic Comedies

Jamie is a gorgeous, successful architect. Dana is an event planner who once fell down a flight of stairs. They couldn’t be less alike!

Seth Rubin —

Sep 14, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

a triptych featuring three queer people in sexy situations - frame one is a girl laying back with her arms behind her head and a book on her chest, frame two is a person on their knees, holding up a puzzle piece with their butt in the air, frame 3 is two hands with painted fingernails, one of the hands has on a finger extender

dating

Love After Lockdown: 7 Hot Dates to Make Things IRL with Your Pandemic Crush Post-Quarantine

You and your cyber cutie have probably gone from simple sexting to full-on virtual sex and maybe have seen each others toy or two – but what about exploring something…

Guest —

Sep 5, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

NSFW

A frustrated-looking white woman wearing glasses and scowls down at her phone as she types.

love + sex

Oh Duck: The Autocorrect Adds You Need for Better Queer Sexting

A spectre is haunting queer sexting — the spectre of “duck.” Here’s how to fix your autocorrect and what to add to your dictionary for better queer sexting.

Ryan Yates —

Aug 25, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

My Top 10 Television Characters

television

My Top 10 Television Characters: Valerie Anne, Who Loves a Hard Shell and a Gooey Center

YES I’M CHEATING RIGHT OUT OF THE GATE DON’T @ ME.

Valerie Anne —

Aug 25, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

my top ten favorite tv shows

television

My Top 10 Television Shows: Ro White, Who Loves Scary Women

You can scroll through my top ten shows and know exactly who I am and who I’ve been — a consistently queer, formerly goth, recovering musical theater nerd with a…

Ro White —

Aug 20, 2020

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My Top 10 Television Characters

television

My Top 10 Television Characters: Kayla, Who Has Mommy Issues

A prime selection of Mean Moms and Women Who Could Beat Me Up.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

Aug 18, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

women in business

money + work

We Need a Three Day Work Week

The time has come for us to abandon ideas of “normal” and imagine new worlds. What if we also imagined less time at work? What if every weekend was a…

Ari —

Aug 17, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

my top ten favorite tv shows

A collage of three queer TV characters reading books. Elena from One Day at a Time, Left to right: Willow from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and Bette from The L Word.

television

My Top Ten Television Shows: Casey Stepaniuk, Your Friendly Neighborhood Lesbrarian

If this were completely honest, it would just be Buffy the Vampire Slayer listed ten times.

Casey —

Aug 13, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

My Top 10 Television Characters

television

My Top 10 Television Characters: Carmen, Who Never Forgets the Women Who Deserved Better

Is it a coincidence that this list of “women I loved who deserved better” is comprised of women of color — and almost exclusively queer women of color? Given the…

Carmen Phillips —

Aug 11, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

My Top 10 Television Characters

television

My Top 10 Television Characters: Natalie, Who’s a Sucker For a Good Character Arc

I’m not sure what it says about me — or, more precisely perhaps, what it says about television — that this list isn’t full of characters that feel like representations…

Natalie —

Jul 28, 2020

Lists/Top 10s

stand-up comedy

comedy

10 Queer Comedians You Should Know (Who Aren’t White Lesbians)

You’ll find odes to Lily Tomlin and Ellen Degeneres with only the occasional nod to comedy notables like Moms Mabley, Wanda Sykes and Margaret Cho, making queer comedy look like…

Ro White —

Jul 24, 2020

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my top ten favorite tv shows

television

My Top Ten Television Shows: Christina Tucker, Who Loves Hangout Comedies and White Women Going Off

“I watched it all in one night, vacillating from helpless laughter (Olivia Coleman’s line readings!!!) to shocked surprise (“Where did you just go?”) and when it was over I sent…

Christina Tucker —

Jul 23, 2020