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  • interior of the ruby fruit
    the scene

    LA Lesbian Bar Ruby Fruit Is Fighting For
    Its Survival. We Really Need It To Win.

    Gabrielle Korn
    Jan 17, 2025
  • Kathy Jack the owner of Sue Ellen's and two regulars of the bar
    culture

    Everything’s Bigger in Texas
    — Even the Lesbian Bars

    Audrey Black
    Jun 25, 2024
  • two people in a lesbian bar
    comedy

    Not Sure How To Celebrate Pride? Do a Lesbian
    Bar Crawl With Your Girlfriend and Ex-Girlfriend Like I Did!

    Gabrielle Grace Hogan
    Jun 24, 2024
  • Kayla and Drew taking a shot at Stonewall
    lgbt pride

    We Went to Every Dyke
    Bar in NYC in One Day

    Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya
    Jun 12, 2024
  • interior of the ruby fruit
    the scene

    LA Lesbian Bar Ruby Fruit Is Fighting For
    Its Survival. We Really Need It To Win.

    Gabrielle Korn
    Jan 17, 2025
  • Kathy Jack the owner of Sue Ellen's and two regulars of the bar
    culture

    Everything’s Bigger in Texas
    — Even the Lesbian Bars

    Audrey Black
    Jun 25, 2024
  • two people in a lesbian bar
    comedy

    Not Sure How To Celebrate Pride? Do a Lesbian
    Bar Crawl With Your Girlfriend and Ex-Girlfriend Like I Did!

    Gabrielle Grace Hogan
    Jun 24, 2024
  • Kayla and Drew taking a shot at Stonewall
    lgbt pride

    We Went to Every Dyke
    Bar in NYC in One Day

    Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya
    Jun 12, 2024
fullscreen
lesbian bar culture
interior of the ruby fruit
the scene

LA Lesbian Bar Ruby Fruit Is Fighting For Its Survival. We Really Need It To Win.

“The thing about having a community hub, a place you return to again and again, is that it makes the city feel smaller. You start to run into the same…
Gabrielle Korn —
Jan 17, 2025
featured
lesbian bar culture
Kathy Jack the owner of Sue Ellen's and two regulars of the bar
culture

Everything’s Bigger in Texas — Even the Lesbian Bars

The largest lesbian bar in the country and the oldest lesbian bar in the South has been running in Dallas, Texas since 1989.
Audrey Black —
Jun 25, 2024
lesbian bar culture
two people in a lesbian bar
comedy

Not Sure How To Celebrate Pride? Do a Lesbian Bar Crawl With Your Girlfriend and Ex-Girlfriend Like I Did!

What could be more inviting and enjoyable than a dyke bar crawl during Pride? Introducing your girlfriend and ex-girlfriend to each other while you do it!
Gabrielle Grace Hogan —
Jun 24, 2024
lesbian bar culture
Kayla and Drew taking a shot at Stonewall
lgbt pride

We Went to Every Dyke Bar in NYC in One Day

Going to 7 queer bars in one day? What could possibly go wrong!
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —
Jun 12, 2024
lesbian bar culture
texas
a person in cowboy gear with their shirt unbuttoned, cowboy boots, and a cowboy hat
society + culture

Texas’ DIY Parties Are Creating Spaces for Lesbians From Scratch

I wear a leather vest for a shirt, a black cowboy hat, and pearls for added flair. The party is in a discreet, always-changing location, available only by word-of-mouth invite.
Gabrielle Grace Hogan —
Apr 18, 2024
featured
lesbian bar culture
Real Queer Women Bartenders of WeHo: A colorful collage of photos of various queer women bartenders featured in the article.
the scene

The Real Queer Women Bartenders of WeHo

When the rest of Santa Monica Blvd is male bartenders, male dancers, and male patrons, seeing these bartenders sends a message: We see you in here.
Gabe Dunn —
Apr 11, 2024
90s nostalgia
Drive Away Dolls
Marian and Jamie from Drive Away Dolls against a background of Florida maps, bar signs, and palm trees
movie features

Real Life Late-90s Lesbian Spaces in the South Where the Drive-Away Dolls Could Have Stopped

Being from Florida, I know how easy it is for the history of queer and trans people to be lost to time, and I think it’s an important part of…
Stef Rubino —
Mar 18, 2024
featured
lesbian bar culture
a collage featuring beer, pool balls, arcades, a neon bar sign, darts, polaroids, and lesbians hanging out
the scene

All 37 Surviving Lesbian Bars In the U.S.

Building on the work of so many queer archivists, writers, and historians, we have created this list, meant to be an ongoing record, of lesbian bars operating in the U.S.…
Riese —
Mar 13, 2024
Drive Away Dolls
lesbian bar culture
Marian in Drive-Away Dolls holds a drink. Marian and Jamie are at a dyke bar in Drive-Away Dolls. Marian, Jamie, and Sookie from Drive-Away Dolls.
quizzes

Quiz: Which Iconic Dyke Bar Are You?

In honor of Drive-Away Dolls, let’s pretend we’re getting ready to go to a dyke bar in 1999.
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —
Mar 3, 2024
lesbian bar culture
lesbian nightlife
A nighttime exterior photo of The Abbey
politics + activism

Los Angeles Gay Bar The Abbey Faces an Overdue Reckoning

In a detailed report from The 19th, over 70 people describe being drugged at The Abbey — including many queer women.
Drew Burnett Gregory —
Jan 20, 2024
#affiliatemarketing
lesbian bar culture
Moby Dyke by Krista Burton
lgbt book reviews

Moby Dyke Is a Fresh Take on the Old Conversation About Disappearing Lesbian Bars

I didn’t go to my first lesbian bar until I was in my early twenties.
Stef Rubino —
Jun 6, 2023
lesbian bar culture
Two women play billiards in a bar
lgbt history

Why Do Lesbian Bars Keep Disappearing?

There are so many myths about why lesbian bars close and/or don’t survive.
Stef Rubino —
Dec 7, 2022
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