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Kristen and Kayla taking a selfie in the sun and Kristen and Kayla kissing at Pride, overlaid with a set of engagement rings

Asking My Fiancée Questions I Don’t Know the Answers to a Month Before Our Wedding

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 10, 2024
a hand reaches for books on a shelf

Before and After the Library

Kristen Arnett October 7, 2023
Kristen Arnett, a white butch human with long straight brown hair and glasses is drawn in an MS paint style in three separate images. In the farmost left one, they are wearing a blue button up and gazing thoughtfully off to the left. In the center one, she is wearing a tank, some necklaces and rings and looking awesome. All the way to the right, he is sticking their tongue out all the way revealing a tongue ring while wearing a Jaws tee shirt. illustrations of money rain down in the background

Queerness Is Messy, I Am Messy and That’s a Very Good Thing

Kristen Arnett March 23, 2023
Photo 1: Kristen kisses Kayla with her hand on her throat. Photo 2: Kayla kisses Kristen's cheek in front of the castle at Disney World. Photo 3: Kristen and Kayla make out in an elevator

Interview With My Fiancé: Kristen

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 14, 2023
The meme of Leonardo DiCaprio pointing when he recognizes someone, and the jeopardy clue featuring Kristen Arnett's "Mostly Dead Things" is photoshopped over it

Also.Also.Also: Noted Lesbian Author Kristen Arnett Was a Clue on Jeopardy, the Category Was “Get Stuffed”

Carmen Phillips January 31, 2023
Kristen Arnett smiles while wearing glasses, propped against a brocade wall.

Also.Also.Also: “The Ache Is Just as Important as the Orgasm,” Kristen Arnett on Writing Great Lesbian Sex

Carmen Phillips September 6, 2022
Kristen Arnett, a white queer person in sunglasses and a tanktop that says Dad, leans toward her girlfriend, Autostraddle Managing Editor Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya, who is a South Asian and white lesbian with her brown curly hair in a ponytail and wearing glue glasses and white overalls over a white t-shirt. They are at Orlando Pride, and Kristen is holding a cup that says Orlando Pride Party on it.

Things I’ve Never Asked My Girlfriend of Three Years About Age Gaps, Topping, and Our First Date

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 29, 2022
This is a photo of Kayla and Kristen. Kayla embraces Kristen and kisses them on the cheek while Kristen smiles. They both have long brown hair and wear glasses. They're also both wearing sweaters!

Things I’ve Never Asked My Girlfriend of Three Years About Her Childhood and High School Years

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 9, 2022
A composite of the cover of Kristen Arnett's WITH TEETH and a photo of the author posing outdoors next to a bird of paradise plant

Kristen Arnett on “With Teeth,” Lesbian Motherhood, and Sagittarius Chaos

Drew Burnett Gregory June 3, 2021

Kristen Arnett’s ‘Mostly Dead Things’ Is a Funny, Dark Story of Messy Queer Love (also, Taxidermy)

Molly Priddy May 28, 2019

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