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View From The Top: A Short History of What I Learned From Dating

I wish someone had told me sooner that I had been seeking mastery all this time, but I wouldn’t have been ready to hear it. Until r came along.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Mar 28, 2017

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Bottoms Up: Used

“When I’m being used for sex, I feel like a vessel through which pleasure flows, hot and bursting.”

Ari —

Mar 21, 2017

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View From The Top: Topping While Butch

It took me years to settle into the idea that masculinity and topping were actually, authentically my identities.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Mar 14, 2017

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Bottoms Up: You Are Not My Dom

Somehow, self-identifying as a submissive makes some potential doms think I am their sub.

Ari —

Mar 7, 2017

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Bottoms Up: About Last Night

“I guess I had a lot of opinions that night because you told me that I was especially chatty. I told you it was because you weren’t giving me anything…

Ari —

Feb 21, 2017

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A Balance In Subspace

Sometimes, being in kinky subspace opens old wounds from an abusive relationship — but sometimes, it can give you the power to close them.

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Feb 15, 2017

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View From The Top: The Thing About Sadism

I want to break things — holes, walls, people. I want to feel the begging in my pelvis and let it ignite the fire under me to burn bright up…

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Feb 14, 2017

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Bottoms Up: I Dream Of Collars

I imagine being a collared submissive as a physical manifestation of my and my dominant’s commitment, a symbol around kinky folks and a public secret around vanilla ones.

Ari —

Feb 7, 2017

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View From The Top: I’ll Take That Risk, And That Knife Play

“He’d asked me about it before, saying it was something he’d always wanted. And now, he was quivering on the floor, looking up at me, handing me an open knife…

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Jan 31, 2017

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Bottoms Up: Denial

I don’t always play to get off. Sometimes denial is exactly what I want.

Ari —

Jan 25, 2017

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8 Lesbian BDSM Novels to Curl Your Toes (and Maybe Melt Your Heart)

Spend an evening with a good book and a paddle.

Casey —

Jan 18, 2017

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View From The Top: Palette of Permission

In the beginning checking in all the time was useful. But after six months of it, Sarah was getting annoyed.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Jan 17, 2017