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A Queer Guide to BDSM Restraints for All Experience Levels

I’m gonna take you through the world of kinky restraints from entry-level essentials to things that should only be done in the presence of experts. My hope is to give…

Summer Tao —

Jul 15, 2025

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A Master’s in Psychology Explains Clicker Training a Submissive in a Kink Context

Clicker training keys into the mental side of kink using benign tools.

Summer Tao —

Jun 12, 2025

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How To Create the Ultimate Solo BDSM Experience

This is about savouring every moment, every sensation, and indulging yourself in a deeply intimate and fulfilling solo BDSM journey, which yes is totally achievable and can be a way…

Carlo —

Feb 5, 2025

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first person

The Erotics of Masks

Wearing a mask felt similar to how I usually identified as a stone top.

MK —

Jan 2, 2025

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Always the Daddy, Never the Dad

It might seem ridiculous to you, reader, to hear a man compare queer kink to biological fatherhood, but I’m trepidatiously taking the stand in defense of duality.

Milo Longenecker —

Aug 22, 2024

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‘Why Are People Into That?’ Asks Incisive Questions About Kink

Tina Horn’s new book will challenge some of your problematic notions no matter how confident you are in your sex positivity.

Summer Tao —

Jun 19, 2024

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you need help

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I’ve Changed, But My Kinks Haven’t

It’s okay to live a life where your interests overlap with the result of trauma.

Summer Tao —

May 21, 2024

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I Unicorned for a Couple at a Quirky Rural Swingers Club

I wasn’t going to turn down the chance to explore a massive swinger lodge that’s been in operation since the 1970’s.

Nico —

Feb 11, 2024

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Shibari 101: Single- and Double-Column Ties

Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.

cee —

May 10, 2023

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