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How Should We Deal with My Fiancé’s Trumpy Dad on Our Wedding Day?

You’ve both got dads, but only want one of them to be involved on your wedding day, but like, without drama. Also, a reader wonders about sharing their erotica too…

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Mar 14, 2025

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Can We Make Sure This New Baby Doesn’t Torpedo Our Friendships?

How can you make sure you don’t under-prioritize your friendships after having a baby? Also, recommendations for wax play!

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Mar 7, 2025

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Newly Sober Girlfriend Is Harshing My Mellow

You’ve compromised for her, but she still judges you for smoking weed. Also, is this out-of-state queer wedding worth the PTO?

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Feb 28, 2025

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My Girlfriend Has Money to Spare, So Can I Ask for a Loan?

She knows you can’t afford the thing you need, but hasn’t even offered to help?! Also, we settle a debate about bookshelves!

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Feb 21, 2025

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Why Am I the Only Friend Not Invited to the Wedding?

Do you think the invite got lost in the mail?? Also we help a reader who’s stunned by a sudden friend breakup.

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Feb 14, 2025

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Will She Dump Me If I Don’t Wanna Join Her Wellness Journey?

Is it OK to tell your girlfriend you’d simply rather watch TV than exercise with her? Also, what to do when texting people back feels like homework!

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Feb 7, 2025

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Why Won’t My Gay Coworker Hang Out With Me and My Gay Friends?

Why does your queer coworker not want to hang out with you?? Also, a reader is given a Sophie’s choice between their husband or their would-be paramour.

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Jan 31, 2025

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I Don’t Think I’m Hot Enough Anymore To Date on the Apps

You’re newly single and worried your face card has expired on these dating apps. Also, we help a reader not text their ex!

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Jan 24, 2025

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My High School Bully Is Happier Than Me

She bullied you for being gay, now she’s the one living a perfect queer life!?? Also, what to do about mismatched communication needs in a relationship?

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Jan 17, 2025

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I Love Living Alone, But My Girlfriend’s Ready to U-Haul

You’re not sure you’re ready to live with your girlfriend yet! Also, a reader is hurt by a friend’s rejection of her mother.

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Jan 10, 2025

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Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again?

Now that you’re sober, you’ve forgotten how to successfully initiate sex! Also, a reader’s partner has checked out post-election.

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Jan 3, 2025

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Am I a Self-Hating Lesbian for Crushing on a Straight Woman?

A grown-ass lesbian is finally and fully crushing on a straight woman — now what?? Also, let’s all get back into reading!

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Dec 27, 2024