I Think We're Alone Now

love + sex

Selfies Are Gonna Save The World

If we all spent more time taking selfies can you IMAGINE the confidence of the queer community at large? We would be unstoppable.

Vanessa —

Mar 6, 2020

I Think We're Alone Now

lesbian sex

How to Get a Girl to Not Sleep Over

Sleepovers are overrated.

Ryan Yates —

Mar 6, 2020

I Think We're Alone Now

personal essay

breakups

Courting Loneliness

It was like saving a seat on the bus for someone who routinely happened to never show up. It was like setting the table for someone who decided to eat…

Kamala Puligandla —

Mar 5, 2020

I Think We're Alone Now

first person

A Rent-Stabilized Room of Her Own

In many ways, the deluge of hilarious, shitty, and hilariously shitty roommates I survived all offered the same thing: an excuse to not have to face myself.

Jehan —

Mar 5, 2020

101s

I Think We're Alone Now

breakups

Breakups and Being Alone 101: The Autostraddle Guide To Life After Love

We’ve got advice on breakups and exes, playlists to see you through, unhinged behavior we highly recommend and so much more from the annals of Autostraddle’s achy breaky hearts.

Riese —

Mar 4, 2020

I Think We're Alone Now

love is a lie

breakups

How Social Media Fucked Up Lesbian Breakup Culture

Breakups are so often garbage and hard, and managing the social media that surrounds it is just another gross layer that makes them even more garbage and even harder.

Rachel —

Mar 4, 2020

I Think We're Alone Now

romance

book lists

Lesbian Romance Novels to Read When You’re Perpetually Single

I’ve been single for most of my life, but romance novels have been my constant partner.

Christina Tucker —

Mar 3, 2020

I Think We're Alone Now

dating

Dealing With Rejection as a Single Woman

It’s so easy to take a “no” personal and use it as justification to question your worth. However, there are a number of ways to intervene before this happens, and…

danijanae —

Mar 3, 2020

divorce

gay marriage

breakups

How Does It Feel to Be Young and Gay Divorced?

When we legally and symbolically bind ourselves together, we’re exchanging some of that fluidity for commitment. Once we marry, breaking up is hard — I mean, really hard — to…

Ro White —

Mar 2, 2020