how to be gay

advice

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relationships

Mind The (Age) Gap: How to Do a May/December Lesbian Relationship

May-December (or even May-October) romances can present occasional challenges, they can also be awesome.

Butch Wonders —

Feb 8, 2012

101s

alcohol

the scene

Having Fun at a Gay Bar 101: Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

At some point, between the night where my friend walked to her ex’s house with my keys, phone and money in her boot, the night where I sobbed to strangers…

Lizz —

Jan 21, 2012

advice

Daily Fix

coming out

You Need to Help These Ten People Come Out

Girls are always asking me for advice on various coming out situations, and I don’t always know how to answer them. Perhaps you, dear reader, would like to take a…

Riese —

Dec 21, 2011

greatest hits

how to be gay

dating

You Need Help: I Feel Like We Would Like You If We Met You

You think you can’t talk to that girl because she’s flawless and you’re you, but that’s bullshit! With special guest: The Great Equalizer.

Laneia —

Nov 10, 2011

how to be gay

special

dating

You Have A Lot of Feelings: The Wonderful World of D&Ms

If there is one thing lesbians love more than cats and beanies, it’s talking about their feelings.

Tully —

Oct 6, 2011

greatest hits

how to be gay

dating

You Need Help: Requisite Crush on a Barista

How do you successfully flirt with that adorable barista?

Laneia —

Sep 19, 2011

college

greatest hits

school

You Need Help: Your College Roommates Are Homophobic Assholes

What if you get to college and your roommates are really homophobic?

Rachel —

Sep 13, 2011

greatest hits

how to be gay

dating

You Need Help: Falling in Love In One (Digital) Dimension

Can you fall in love and have a successful relationship with somebody you’ve never met?

Riese —

Aug 31, 2011

feminism

how to be gay

lesbian sex

How I Learned to Talk (In Bed): Why This Queer Woman Cares About Consent

I had already committed, in my mind, to taking on consent activism for the rest of my life. Then I came out of the closet.

Carmen —

Aug 26, 2011

college

college lesbianage

school

The Lesbian Insider’s Guide to 40 LGBT-Friendly College Campuses

Queer girls from 40 different schools give you the uncensored scoop on what it feels like for a gay lady on their campus — from hookup culture to dyke parties…

the team —

Aug 24, 2011

college

how to be gay

school

You Need Help: Lesbian Back-To-School Edition

So you’re going to your first semester at college! Do you have to come out to your roommate?

Rachel —

Aug 19, 2011

how to be gay

sex advice

lesbian sex

You Need Help: Bottoms Up and Helping Your Girlfriend

Can a top be a bottom without selling her soul? And how to talk to a partner who isn’t what she used to be.

Laneia —

Aug 8, 2011