how to be gay

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Going Down (South)

first person

The Ones We Left Behind: On Being An Ally To Small Town Queers

“If you’re reading this and are currently in love with a tiny place that hasn’t loved you back yet, I want you to know that this is okay.”

fonseca —

Oct 15, 2012

b is hilarious

greatest hits

first person

The (Over)Thinker: On How To Be A Human With Another Human

I wrote a letter to myself about over thinking in a relationship. Maybe I wrote this letter to you as well.

Brittani —

Oct 3, 2012

how to be gay

i broke up like this

breakups

37 Delicious Things That Become Infinitely More Delicious After A Breakup

18. Gin 19. Brownie batter

Lizz —

Sep 24, 2012

advice

how to be gay

relationships

Long-Distance Lesbian Relationships: How To Make Them Work And When To Call It Quits

There is no right or wrong way to be in a long-distance relationship — maybe you thrive on independence or maybe you just need cuddles at night. Here are some…

Hansen —

Sep 20, 2012

cyberculture

greatest hits

dating

Oh Gay Cupid! 21 Signs Your OkCupid Date Isn’t Going Well

Why does this shit always happen to me?

Lizz —

Sep 12, 2012

femmes

greatest hits

first person

Femmes: Beyond Lipstick (and Heels and Dresses)

Sometimes you just want a role model.

Kristen —

Aug 16, 2012

101s

greatest hits

breakups

Family Business: How To Break Up With Your Ex’s Family, Too

You were never just dating a cute woman. You were dating a cute woman who is also someone’s daughter, granddaughter, bubeleh, mija, etc.

fonseca —

Aug 15, 2012

101s

advice

breakups

You Need Help: How To Navigate a Social Event with Your Ex

You and your ex are going to the same social event? You should probs read this first.

Tully —

Aug 1, 2012

advice

greatest hits

dating

5 Tips On Dating a Girl Who Is Only Kinda Sorta Maybe Out To Her Family And Friends

“Give her time, give her love and support and when she’s ready to whack the rainbow flag bumper sticker on her car, then she will.”

Tully —

Jun 11, 2012

101s

advice

the scene

Texting Your Ex-Girlfriend in Five Easy Steps

I’m helping you put the EX back in TEXT

Lizz —

May 22, 2012

advice

coming out a little later

breakups

How To Leave Your Husband (Because You’re a Lesbian)

Once upon a time I married a man, had kids, and realized I was a lesbian. Here’s what happened and what I wish somebody had told me at the time.

Laneia —

Mar 29, 2012

greatest hits

how to be gay

breakups

The Lifespan of a Lesbian Heartbreak

That’s it, I’m dating myself.

phoenix —

Feb 17, 2012