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How to Get a Credit Card and Not Totally Ruin Your Life Forever

All credit cards are not created equal. Here’s what you want to look for in a new card or your very first card.

KaeLyn —

Jul 16, 2015

greatest hits

grown-ups

lesbian weddings

37 Extremely Important Questions You Must Answer Before Getting Married Or You’re Doomed

8. How many holidays per year are you prepared to spend with my grandmother in Florida?

Crystal —

Jul 14, 2015

gay marriage

greatest hits

lesbian weddings

A Handy Form Letter For That Relative Who Won’t Attend Your Gay Wedding

WHY ARE YOU BEING SO MEAN TO ME?!?!?!!?!

Riese —

Jul 9, 2015

gay moms

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queer pregnancy

VIDEO: Queer Mama for Autostraddle Episode Seven — Help Name Our Baby!

No, seriously.

haley —

Jul 9, 2015

"personality cult"

advice

first person

The Story of “No”

This year, from April 20th until June 12th, I made some variation of “no” my Facebook status every day. It was just something I found vaguely funny but by the…

Brittani —

Jul 1, 2015

b is hilarious

greatest hits

comedy

B is Hilarious: What She’s Doing When She’s Not Texting You Back

They should make up a sixth love language that’s just Texting Back in a Polite Amount of Time.

Brittani —

May 20, 2015

butch/femme

drugs

first person

A Queer African Tale: On Trauma, Gender Transitions and Acceptance

“Dating broken white women became a way to reprise a powerlessness that years of sexual abuse and generations of blackphobia had tricked me into believing in. I drowned this feeling…

Ola Osaze —

Apr 30, 2015

Autostraddle Reader Data

gay statistics

sex

The 100 Most Ambitious Places You’ve Had Sex

“Lost in the Dole pineapple maze in Hawaii.” “On my back in a Corolla on a bridge in a Little Bo Peep costume.” “The aardvark exhibit at the zoo.”

Riese —

Apr 30, 2015

Autostraddle Reader Data

greatest hits

sex

41 Feelings You Had About Scissoring

How many of you scissor on the regular? And how many of you remain convinced that scissoring isn’t real? Here’s what our Ultimate Lesbian Sex Survey revealed about everybody’s favorite…

Riese —

Apr 19, 2015

Autostraddle Reader Data

greatest hits

sex

The 100 Gayest Places You’ve Had Sex

” The back of a Jeep next to a beaver pond. That’s right. Beaver. Pond. A pond with an entire family of beavers in it.”

Riese —

Apr 8, 2015

Autostraddle Reader Data

gay statistics

sex

How Often Do Queer Women Have Sex?

We’ve got all the numbers on how often you have sex from our Ultimate Lesbian Sex Survey — and some of them might surprise you!

Riese —

Mar 30, 2015

binder

greatest hits

queer fashion

This Binder is Magic: A Gushing Review of the GC2b

“Anyhow, I put this binder on, and after the initial struggle that always comes with putting on a thing that fits as tightly as binders should fit, I felt —…

A.E. Osworth —

Mar 25, 2015