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Find Your Fit: The Late 20s Grandpa Who’s Ready to Feel Hot

“I love classical tailoring but I worry that maybe it comes across as a bit stuffy and boring? I want to convince myself, and ideally other people, that I’m hot…

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May 21, 2019

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Find Your Fit: The 30-Year-Old Leaning Into Quirky, Adult Androgyny

“My early 20s was all about 1950s vintage librarian looks (fit n’ flare dresses, patterned tights, cardigans) but in the last year (legitimately writing this to you on my 30th…

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Apr 23, 2019

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Find Your Fit: A Small Lesbian Who Likes to Play With Gender

“I’m a longtime reader who’s ready to play with gender more intentionally in my outfits, but I’m not sure what that looks like. Flannel? Button downs? Dresses? Obviously my first…

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Apr 1, 2019

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Find Your Fit: The Fancy Gay Seeking Dapper Summer Style

“I’ve finally truly embraced myself and the fact that I’m pretty masc-of-center… but I have no warm weather work clothes that fit, and don’t know how to dress in keeping…

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Mar 26, 2019

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Find Your Fit: The Tomboy Femme Breaking Past Polos for Work

I’m a tomboy femme who’s been stuck in boring clothes in the last several years looking to break out of the funk of wearing nothing but work polos and old…

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Jan 15, 2019

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Find Your Fit: The Office Worker Bored With Basic Slacks

Previously I’ve felt pretty comfortable presenting very femininely but recently started a new corporate job and I am SICK of having to wear the traditional slacks + top combo. That…

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Jan 2, 2019

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Find Your Fit: The NB Parent Ready for a Personal Style

“I had a kid two years ago and have really struggled working out my gender after that. My body changed a lot in ways I did not like and I’ve…

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Dec 18, 2018

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Find Your Fit: The Non-binary Queer Ready to Be a Femme Daddy

“A lot of what I’m trying to evoke can be represented in the hosts of The Weakest Link around the world. Powerful take-no-shit femmes in suits, oh my.”

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Dec 4, 2018

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Find Your Fit: The Former Pinup Moving to Minimalism

“I want to be SEEN by that hot dyke in the bus, ya know? And also to feel at home in this fat, queer body that I haven’t felt good…

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Nov 20, 2018

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Find Your Fit: The Edgy Lesbian Who’s “Femme, Not Frail”

“I’m a psych major with a love for writing poetry and making traditionally masculine and also lesbian things — style or otherwise — edgy and feminine. One of my many…

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Nov 6, 2018

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Find Your Fit: The Accountant Who Wants to Accessorize

“I can’t stand wearing high heels, and I have no idea how to accessorize — but I want to get out of my comfort zone a bit.”

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Oct 23, 2018

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Find Your Fit: The Non-Binary Student Ready to Evolve Past Jeans & T-Shirts

I’m a Taurus sun, Sagittarius moon non-binary person from France, who recently discovered that they feel much more at home in the men’s section of the stores.

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Oct 9, 2018