death is sad

andrea gibson

death is sad

first person

Andrea Gibson’s Work Lives in the Realities of Chronic Pain

There’s a long and powerful queer lineage of artists whose bodies were politicized, pathologized, and misunderstood and who still chose to create from that place.

Katie —

Jul 21, 2025

andrea gibson

death is sad

first person

Andrea Gibson Kept Sincerity Alive

The loss of Andrea Gibson is not just one that rocks the poetry world, but the world at large.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan —

Jul 18, 2025

death is sad

really really really bad bad news

politics + activism

Sam Nordquist Loved His Family, Cooking, Dancing, Cats, and Nature

Sam deserved to keep living this life every day, and he deserved to grow up even further, to grow old, to achieve his goals, and get every single thing he…

Stef Rubino —

Feb 20, 2025

David Lynch

death is sad

movie features

Fix Your Hearts and Live

It is through women that Lynch reminds us: No matter how dark it gets, there is always the possibility for suffering to end.

Morgan M Page —

Jan 19, 2025

death is sad

politics + activism

Nikki Giovanni Never Stopped Standing Up for What’s Right

On Monday, it was reported that Nikki Giovanni — internationally recognized poet and leader in the Black Arts Movement who urged us to believe in and fight for a world…

Stef Rubino —

Dec 10, 2024

death is sad

dorothy allison

book features

Dorothy Allison, Lesbian and Feminist Writer and Activist, Has Died. We Must Keep Learning From Her Life’s Work and ‘Remake the World’

Dorothy Allison died at the age of 75 from cancer earlier this week. Some of my favorite teachers in the world are people I’ve never shared a classroom with, and…

Stef Rubino —

Nov 9, 2024

death is sad

Horror Is So Gay

issues

An Essay About Poltergeist but Actually It’s About My Dead Mom

Compared to my parents’ volatile relationship, their divorce, and the financial instability that came after it, being scared of ghosts seemed like a waste of time.

Stef Rubino —

Oct 26, 2024

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carol the dog

first person

A Heartbeat At My Feet

Carol was the best of me. She filled the gap between who I was and who I wanted to be: an animal unafraid to make the first move, loose and…

Riese —

Sep 19, 2024

death is sad

polyamory

first person

Untethered: Visiting Other Peoples’ Families and Unhinged Horse Lesbians

She grabbed my hand and smashed a tomato with her homemade caesar dressing into my palm.

Nico —

May 16, 2024

#affiliatemarketing

death is sad

book lists

19 Queer Books About Losing a Parent

These queer books across all genres are all haunted in some way by the death of a parent.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya —

May 11, 2024

death is sad

Untethered

first person

Untethered: A Great Lady

I’ve been eulogizing, just to myself, in the moments between other moments that are claimed by tasks or thoughts of the present or literally anything else.

Nico —

Jan 11, 2024

af+ personal essay

BEGIN AGAIN

af+

The Flood Came Later

“I’ve always loved the water. Before top surgery, when my discomfort with my body was at an all time high, swimming was the one thing I could do that gave…

Jude Little —

Nov 15, 2023