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Bottoms Up: What Limits?

Sex doesn’t exist in a vacuum, but what if during the act, it did? What if all I focused on during sex was consent and pleasure?

Ari

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Oct 18, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Greedy

“Submitting is something I do, not something done to me.”

Ari

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Oct 5, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Sad, Solo, Submissive

Be the daddy you want to see in the world.

Ari

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Sep 20, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Subspace Is Better Than Meditation

The more I experience subspace, the more I think that mindful living is possible for me.

Ari

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Sep 6, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Did My Feminist Ancestors Burn Their Bras For This?

I’ve worked hard to hold onto my independence, and here I was giving it up — to someone more dominant and more masculine. My feminist ancestors didn’t burn their bras…

Ari

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Aug 23, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Little Boi

Being in little space doesn’t feel like being a child again. It feels more freeing than my childhood ever was, and like something completely different.

Ari

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Aug 9, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Nope That Word Is Not For Me

“I cannot wait to have a partner with whom I can explore consensual non-consent in a 24/7 lifestyle. But to be called a slave? In America?”

Ari

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Jul 26, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Why I’m A Bratty Bossy Bitch

Submitting is a weird dichotomy of knowing exactly what you want but putting someone else in control of giving it to you.

Ari

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Jun 28, 2016

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Bottoms Up: My Time In The Dungeon

“I was on my ninth cigarette when the dom about to give me the most affirming experience I’d had as a sub came to stand next to me.”

Ari

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Jun 14, 2016

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Bottoms Up: BDSM and Abuse

It was summer and I was lonely and she was kinky and the sex was good and I live in a small town. And she was perfect, but she wasn’t.

Ari

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May 17, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Bottoming and Butt Sex

I want to submit — to the right person. And the right person — with whom I have a deep level of trust, with whom I can relax — will…

Ari

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May 3, 2016

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Bottoms Up: I Am My Best Sex

Being single, solo submission, masturbation, and how you can be your own best and favorite top.

Ari

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Apr 19, 2016