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View From The Top: The Thing About Sadism

I want to break things — holes, walls, people. I want to feel the begging in my pelvis and let it ignite the fire under me to burn bright up…

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Feb 14, 2017

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Bottoms Up: I Dream Of Collars

I imagine being a collared submissive as a physical manifestation of my and my dominant’s commitment, a symbol around kinky folks and a public secret around vanilla ones.

Ari —

Feb 7, 2017

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View From The Top: I’ll Take That Risk, And That Knife Play

“He’d asked me about it before, saying it was something he’d always wanted. And now, he was quivering on the floor, looking up at me, handing me an open knife…

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Jan 31, 2017

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Bottoms Up: Denial

I don’t always play to get off. Sometimes denial is exactly what I want.

Ari —

Jan 25, 2017

Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Lesbrarian

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8 Lesbian BDSM Novels to Curl Your Toes (and Maybe Melt Your Heart)

Spend an evening with a good book and a paddle.

Casey —

Jan 18, 2017

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View From The Top: Palette of Permission

In the beginning checking in all the time was useful. But after six months of it, Sarah was getting annoyed.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Jan 17, 2017

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Bottoms Up: Ch-ch-changes

As my gender expression changes, so does who I’m attracted to.

Ari —

Jan 10, 2017

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View From The Top: From Physical to Psychological

“But when we changed the game a little, and added just a few little things, our play soared to new mountain summits I hadn’t even known we could reach, or…

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Jan 3, 2017

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Poly Pocket: Dreaming of a World With Less Fear, More Vulnerability As A Black Trans Queer Person

“I view polyamory as a structure that’s helpful in me decolonizing my love life and the way I view relationships. Having complete ownership of everything within the borders of my…

Ryan Yates —

Dec 29, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Kinky Resolutions

As I grow more into the submissive I want to be, I grow to love myself more.

Ari —

Dec 28, 2016

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View From The Top: Five Favorite Protocols

Within D/s relationships specifically, protocols are explicit, negotiated with the needs and best interests of everyone in mind, subject to change based on reflection and consent.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Dec 21, 2016

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Bottoms Up: Holistic Masochism

“Holistic masochism recognizes that I’m not just a sex machine, but a whole person who has to exist before and after play.”

Ari —

Dec 13, 2016