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View From The Top: Where I’m Going

I feel lighter than I’ve been in a year. I feel ecstatic with the possibilities. I feel giddy, like I’m falling in love.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Apr 25, 2017

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Bottoms Up: I Am Enough

I get it now. Hot toppy girls will like me just as I am or they won’t get to like me at all. I am good enough.

Ari —

Apr 18, 2017

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View From The Top: Where I’ve Been

Before any of my other sexuality identities, I was kinky.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Apr 11, 2017

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Being Kinky Doesn’t Make You Queer

I’m queer, and I’m kinky. But being kinky doesn’t make me queer. Kink is not a sexual orientation.

Ryan Yates —

Apr 5, 2017

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Bottoms Up: Earn It

It’s not that I don’t want to submit, it’s that submitting is so different from how I have to conduct my life that it takes effort to turn off that…

Ari —

Apr 4, 2017

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View From The Top: A Short History of What I Learned From Dating

I wish someone had told me sooner that I had been seeking mastery all this time, but I wouldn’t have been ready to hear it. Until r came along.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Mar 28, 2017

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Bottoms Up: Used

“When I’m being used for sex, I feel like a vessel through which pleasure flows, hot and bursting.”

Ari —

Mar 21, 2017

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View From The Top: Topping While Butch

It took me years to settle into the idea that masculinity and topping were actually, authentically my identities.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Mar 14, 2017

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Bottoms Up: You Are Not My Dom

Somehow, self-identifying as a submissive makes some potential doms think I am their sub.

Ari —

Mar 7, 2017

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View From The Top: Is Kink The New Vanilla?

You just have to be honest about what you’re looking for, and keep going after it.

Sinclair Sexsmith —

Feb 28, 2017

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Bottoms Up: About Last Night

“I guess I had a lot of opinions that night because you told me that I was especially chatty. I told you it was because you weren’t giving me anything…

Ari —

Feb 21, 2017

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A Balance In Subspace

Sometimes, being in kinky subspace opens old wounds from an abusive relationship — but sometimes, it can give you the power to close them.

Guest —

Feb 15, 2017