advice

advice

gender identity

money + work

You Need Help: Coming Out as Non-Binary at Work

Our gender is not a burden, the binary mainstream society is. You are wonderful, I’m so proud of you for reaching out. Take what works from my suggestions, and know…

Araguaney R. Da Silva —

Nov 9, 2017

advice

sex advice

lesbian sex

You Need Help: Getting Out of Your Head and Into Her Pants

Here’s how to forget about the world during sex and be present instead.

Ryan Yates —

Oct 16, 2017

advice

comic-con

geekery

4 Tips to Make Your ComicCon Experiences as Gay as Possible

“Sometimes I forget that straight people watch TV, too.”

Valerie Anne —

Oct 4, 2017

advice

bi week 2017

first person

I Get Bi with a Little Help from My Friends

In general, my bi friends understand the alienation, erasure and self-doubt that comes with being bisexual in a “can’t you just pick one” world. By seeing and believing each other’s…

Adrian —

Sep 21, 2017

advice

tattoos

beauty

5 Things to Consider Before Getting Your First Tattoo

Getting a tattoo is exciting. But don’t get so excited that you lose sight of a few important things.

Liselle “afronautic” Savitri —

Sep 7, 2017

advice

sex advice

lesbian sex

You Need Help: Even Sex Gods Get Anxious Sometimes

Share your feelings with your partner, stud.

Christina Tesoro —

Aug 22, 2017

advice

financial planning

home

Home Sweet Homo: A Guide to Buying Your First Home

Where do you even start the journey of finding your dream home? Right here!

KaeLyn —

Jul 25, 2017

advice

greatest hits

lesbian sex

22 Easy Steps to Rethinking Your Whole Relationship Through Late-Night Nudes

Is that insecurity in my pocket or have you just not sexted me back yet?

Courtney —

May 18, 2017

advice

Lists/Top 10s

comedy

17 (More) Realistic Ways to Break Anyone Down

Like last time, as we proceed in the comments, remember the severity or levity of your hypotheticals might feed the power a person has over you. Tread carefully, and let’s…

Erin —

Feb 13, 2017

advice

disability

comedy

How To Be Disabled, According to Stock Photography

“Gaze out the window or exist in silhouette as often as possible.”

Carrie —

Feb 6, 2017

advice

getting in bed with kristin

community

You Are Cordially Invited To Get In Bed With Kristin Russo

Kristin is bringing her advice show, Getting In Bed With Kristin, to Autostraddle’s Facebook live!

Heather Hogan —

Jan 10, 2017

advice

friendship

You Need Help: Your Best Friend Has Feelings for You, Lives 1000s of Miles Away

There is safety in distance, a whole lot of it — distance lets us be different version of ourselves, or to reveal parts of ourselves we haven’t shown to the…

Maree —

Dec 6, 2016