advice

advice

Courtney Trouble

relationships

You Need Help: Long-Distance Relationships

So far away! Courtney Trouble gets blunt about LDRs.

Courtney Trouble —

May 14, 2018

advice

you need help

lesbian sex

You Need Help: You Want to Have Sex But Also Sex Is a Lot Wow So Complicated

You and your girlfriend don’t have to have sex unless you both want to have sex, no matter how long you’ve been dating. But also if you DO wanna have…

KaeLyn —

Apr 24, 2018

advice

Lists/Top 10s

queer fashion

9 Lesbian Ways to Wear a Bandana

The inevitable list of ways to wear bandanas.

Ari —

Apr 23, 2018

advice

divorce

breakups

You Need Help: Post-Divorce Feelings

“It’s so important to learn lessons from past loves without them negatively affecting or preventing us from being able to give our all to future loves. How to do that,…

Abbie Jones —

Apr 19, 2018

advice

you need help

lesbian sex

You Need Help: You Don’t Know What To Do With Your Clit

Every body has a history; yours doesn’t preclude you from pleasure. Go forth and jam!

A.E. Osworth —

Apr 10, 2018

advice

you need help

dating

You Need Help: You’re in Love with a Straight Girl and You Want It to Stop

Take a deep breath. You can get through this.

Ryan Yates —

Feb 28, 2018

advice

serious business

comedy

What to Say to Someone Who Met a Lesbian

Greet them with various felicitations – ones you’re comfortable with. Don’t step too far out of your “vibe” as that will be unsettling.

Erin —

Feb 21, 2018

advice

asexuality

dating

You Need Help: When You’re Ace and You Want to Be More Than Friends

What to do when you have a crush on your roommate and you’re both asexual and are definitely more than just friends and definitely don’t know what to do about…

Creatrix Tiara —

Feb 5, 2018

advice

nutrition

food and drink

Radical Queer Nutrition: Meet the Witch Who Wants to Help Heal Your Guts

Over the next few months, certified nutritional therapist Lark Malakai Grey will be exploring various aspects of nutrition that will help make your body — which is wonderful how it…

Lark Malakai —

Jan 12, 2018

advice

you need help

lesbian sex

You Need Help: When Strap-On Sex Leaves (Accidental) Bruises

Strap-on sex shouldn’t leave any bruises unless you want it to.

A.E. Osworth —

Jan 11, 2018

advice

disability

lesbian sex

You Need Help: Relearning Sex with Chronic Pain

The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.

Guest —

Nov 27, 2017

advice

diary of a SAD girl

health

5 Ways To Fight Back Against Seasonal Affective Disorder

I’ve been dealing with SAD all my adult life, and especially since I moved to the northeast where daylight lasts about as long as my lunch break from November to…

Heather Hogan —

Nov 10, 2017